Feeling positive

Hi all im a newly discovered sex toy addict lol. Im 32 and been in a 13 year relationship and bought my first toy back in 2018 which sat unused for 3 years because i wasn’t confident to use on my partner.

Fast forward 3years weve found our love for spicing things up which has improved our sex life 10fold and all it took was an open discussion about trying new things.

Cant pretend that its been smooth sailing as i would love some advice on how to use vibrating eggs as couldnt seem to get it to stay in but am looking forward to a toy filled future :slight_smile:

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Welcome to the forum :blush:

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It’s always good to see positive comments posted, well done you, unfortunately no advice the eggs @Newly_awakened_hubby

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Thank you :slight_smile: :innocent:

Hello and welcome @Newly_awakened_hubby :slightly_smiling_face:

Kegel exercises may help keep the egg in place if you don’t already do them? You can get non-vibrating eggs in a variety of weights and sizes to practice with, or just do regular pelvic floor exercises/squeezes throughout the day. Generally the smaller and heavier the egg/kegel ball the harder the workout. :+1:

And here’s the kegel ball guide if you want to read a bit more. :slightly_smiling_face:

Though some toy shapes don’t suit everybody, as every body is different, so don’t worry too much if it’s not the one for you. :slightly_smiling_face::+1:

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That’s a great success story :grinning: welcome!

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Thanks all

@Ian_Chimp nice one going to have a read and give it another go. Think it may be partly me being scared to push it in fully maybe should have watched a few videos before jumping the gun

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Welcome and don’t forget to laugh off the failures during you exploring as it is something else you have discovered

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Welcome to the forum

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Hi @Newly_awakened_hubby :wave:
Welcome to the forum!

Excellent story and I’m glad things are going well for you both now. I think Mr Chimp has you covered on the love eggs but yeh, if coming out probably not inserted fully, only bit protruding should be the retrieval cord - same as with a tampon.:+1:

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Welcome to the forum and a wonderful congratulations on finding your sexual awakening!
Now you’ve taken the step to join on here you’ll be able to read up on many new and exciting ways to spice things up even more so in the bedroom :wink:

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Hi :wave: @Newly_awakened_hubby welcome to the forum :blush:

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Hello :wave:

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@Newly_awakened_hubby hello and welcome :relaxed:

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There’s a Love Egg Guide too, and I’ll see if I can rustle up a Lovehoney vlog. :slightly_smiling_face::+1:

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Welcome to the forum ! I’m a bit of a Ben wa addict and would suggest like above to insert further up. Also to practice with things that don’t vibrate and try holding them first to get your Kegels ready for the buzz.

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Thanks all i feel really welcome and going to take all the tips on board… should have joined this forum alot sooner :hugs:

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Hellooooo

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Heya @Newly_awakened_hubby Welcome to the LH forum! I’m Soph x

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@Sophie01 @Craig1234 nice to meet you both

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