I know I’m late to the party. But. If your main concern is not showing up half naked on the drive. Are you willing/able to wear a “jacket” like top coat that you could take off in the parking lot before walking inside? Is there a clothing check in counter for the walk to the building assuming you can’t park nearby? Is there a concierge service for parking, so you can leave the jacket inside your car?
In those cases the expo / dungeon we visit has a clothing check in area since you usually have to walk for blocks through a major tourist attraction city and it’s a rather high end/up scale area that the dungeon is in. Which is part of the excitement in a way, and a definite cause for nervousness in my case.
This is what my GF does with regards to the “topcoat” layer. It’s only awkward when there is no parking nearby and I have to drop her off almost at the doorstep and then find parking.
My GF is an hourglass with similar body proportions to you from the random pictures Ive seen you post in Lingerie Uploads while scrolling through to get my 50 likes per day in. The only difference I see between my GF and the pictures I’ve seen that you uploaded are the color palettes to match respective complexions. You’re almost as white as I am. And she’s rather dark. So, our go to colors are sometimes quite opposite. Be it daily professional wear or kink wear. Although wet black looks suit every skin tone in my opinion (in the right setting of course).
I know that this isn’t quite what you were asking. And I’m months late seeing this. But, without being inappropriate, anything that is hourglass appropriate would probably look equally as sensuous on you as it does on her. And for any “problem” areas you see that most likely no one else will even notice?
The Right shape-wear also does wonders for self confidence. And at the end of the day I think most would agree that it isn’t so much what you wear. But how confidently you wear it that leaves a lasting impression in peoples minds.
It’s always more of an awkward moment outside for us than it is inside. (As in be thankful you’re not 6’3 - column shaped, walking in heels with platforms, over 7 feet tall as a result, and in skimpy outfits for blocks after dropping your GF off at the doorstep, all while trying to make sure you don’t break your ankle up and down very steep streets that are always crowded no matter the time of night). Lol. 
If you’ve already gone and had a good experience, please let us know what you wore if you’re comfortable doing so. I’m asking so I can give my GF ideas for the next time(s) we go (to the dungeon/club).
I’m also curious as to the in person difference between an expo and a club/dungeon. We have talked frequently about going to expos in the SF Bay Area but don’t really have any experience with that and are skittish for the same reasons.
(We don’t know enough about the differences to know what we don’t know essentially). Lol
Whether you feel comfortable updating or replying or not. I hope you had a good time and/or are feeling comfortable enough you’re wanting to go again.
From the textual and picture posts I’ve seen from you, you seem rather confident, (right fully so). If the shape-wear comment struck you the wrong way, please don’t take offense.
It’s just something I thought of due to the amount of times I’ve had to reassure my GF she’s turning heads left and right, daily life or night life. She’s actually equally self accepting and confident in most ways. But we all need encouragement at points. So the comment was offered in that context rather than that you need any for any reason other than that you feel you need any.
I guess the saying is true. We are our own worst critics. I know I certainly am as a perfectionist. Since nothing about my CD related “switch” presentations at a club/dungeon are even remotely close to perfect, and I’m still learning how to accept that my normal daily presentation draws looks “for the right reasons in my mind.” And maybe not as much the same reasons in our playful night out/dungeon club events.
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