Apologies if this has came up before but couldn't find anything right on search.
Im planning on going to a swingers party tomorrow, my first ever experience of swinging. The idea of a party, especially one ran by a woman makes me feel safer than at a strangers house or hotel room. I also plan on being 100% as safe as can be condoms all the way for everything bar a hand job and no going down on women.
Just wondering if anyone more experienced can give me any advice? What to expect/wear/bring? Dress code is smart casual as it's city centre afternoon.
Honestly first time is pretty terrifying. I'd recommend just being friendly and chatting. People will often come over to newbies and chat to make them feel open.
Used to swing in the past for a good few years but took a few socials to really get the vibe.
I don't have any experience of this, but I just want to say that I think you should just watch in the beginning so you get a feel of the party and that everything seems alright. If it seems to be all good, then you could join in :) And never let anyone pressure you to do something you don't want, everything should be on your terms :)
A lot of people worry about swingers taking advantage etc. But honestly, they are some of the nicest people I know. Just sitting and talking to an experienced swinging couple is normally the best thing to do.
First time we went we met another couple chatted and eventually went to a room together before we had sex - with our own partners next to each other. That was pretty hot.
The atmosphere was good, everybody friendly and accommodating, no pressures. Once we came out of the room however things had got a little more "interesting" however if you know what I mean.
Dress wise I'd say smart casual outer wear and something special underneath.
From our experiences no-one will push you, no does mean no and everyone is as friendly as people have said before.
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Thank you :) im using that pic on Fabswingers and have over 300 likes on it! Dont think people realise that there's a corset under though. Im a lot more squishy irl.
Dont know if that's a bit much for an afternoon smart/casual? Was thinking a nice day dress and good underwear?
Apologies if this has came up before but couldn't find anything right on search.
Im planning on going to a swingers party tomorrow, my first ever experience of swinging. The idea of a party, especially one ran by a woman makes me feel safer than at a strangers house or hotel room. I also plan on being 100% as safe as can be condoms all the way for everything bar a hand job and no going down on women.
Just wondering if anyone more experienced can give me any advice? What to expect/wear/bring? Dress code is smart casual as it's city centre afternoon.
Well done you I would luv to go to a swingers party but don't have the guts or body. You look stunning ( your pics are great fantastic body and great boobs ). Be safe and don't do anything unless you want to. You will have a queue a mile long for men ( or women ) who want to have sex with you. Have a great time !
Apologies if this has came up before but couldn't find anything right on search.
Im planning on going to a swingers party tomorrow, my first ever experience of swinging. The idea of a party, especially one ran by a woman makes me feel safer than at a strangers house or hotel room. I also plan on being 100% as safe as can be condoms all the way for everything bar a hand job and no going down on women.
Just wondering if anyone more experienced can give me any advice? What to expect/wear/bring? Dress code is smart casual as it's city centre afternoon.
Well done you I would luv to go to a swingers party but don't have the guts or body. You look stunning ( your pics are great fantastic body and great boobs ). Be safe and don't do anything unless you want to. You will have a queue a mile long for men ( or women ) who want to have sex with you. Have a great time !
Honestly Tony so much of it is just confidence. I'm a bit heavier now than I was in some of those pics (about a UK 16-18) but have been to naked female kink events and once you're there and everyone else is walking around with their kit off it's great. You're never the oldest, never the largest, everyone who goes is a human covered in scars, stretch marks, tattoos and everything else that humans have. Don't let your body hold you back from doing anything :)
Thank you though and I'm gonna see how I feel when I get there as to whether to join in yet. Might just voyeur like some people have suggested. Fingers crossed on the condoms Leanne! xx