Fuck, orgasms chased off my libido

No, really. I've gone along for years with a healthy sex drive and satisfying sex life, so I felt that being unable to orgasm was no big deal. Finally it started happening a couple of months ago and now I find it quite easy to orgasm with a vibrator, though I've yet to have a really good one and some are just pants. Now my sex drive's almost gone. If I leave the vibrators alone for at least a week I start to get interested again, but as soon as I get myself off I stop caring.

I'm going to see if quitting hormonal birth control helps, otherwise I suppose I'll have to get some self control and ration my orgasms.