First of all happy new year to you all!
Looking for a bit of advice, my OH and I are going through a dry patch, this isn't uncommon for us as I can quite often go a while without feeling the urge...
But this dry patch has now gone on for 3 months, which I know for some is not a long time but usually by a month we tend to get out of it. I usually have to initiate sex otherwise it never happens but at the moment I just never feel up to it but now I'm really conscious of how long it's been.
I'm also now kind of scared to initiate something as I always find sex really painful if it's not on a regular basis...
How do you find the best way of getting out of a dry spell?
Any advice would be appreciated