How long does it take to get your partner hard if you are stroking his cock ?
It takes my wife about 10 seconds to achieve this.
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Must admit self control is not one of my strengths, as soon as sex is even mentions as being on the cards up it pings like those automated toll gate barriers!
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Not long at all, if doing just what you described itās probably the same. If I want him hard hands free I wear lingerie or some other tricks but itās quite easy and thatās if Iāve beat him to it, sometimes heās way ahead of me.
Iām jealous how quickly heās ready compared to me who is naturally a slow starter 
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Heās hard as my hand is reaching for him, all it takes is a dirty twinkle and a smile and 
never timed it 
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Iāve found some men to be voice activated, no touch needed!
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Always been quick and within the 10-20 seconds. Did have a complete no show this week for the first time ever.
Husband - Was full wanting sex , body little tired after long day. Had edged once during day no issues. It just wouldnāt get hard , then psychologically mind was thinking about it and not going up which made it worse. Tried and tried couldnāt recover from it so gave up. Would be interested of similar experiences! Just turned 40 so paranoid itās all down hill 
Wife - usually always quick and this was first time, didnāt want to make awkward as it wasnāt for me as long as it wasnāt me turning him off ha! But know it was impacting husband more from pride , not getting up stigma.
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@Daisy1982 . Iām nearly 60 , I rarely maintain an erection these days , and takes me ages to get hard . The worse thing , is that my wife says its because shes āall fat and frumpyā ( her words) . This makes me feel bad , because it isnāt true . In turn , this adds to the tension, which means it harder to get hard .
In your case , Iād say it was just a one off , itās happened to most fellas. No ones "fault " . Donāt make an issue of it , and try againater . I bet it will be like an iron girder next time !!!
Enjoy 
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It literally takes him seconds to get hard. Most of the time he doesnāt have to be touched, wether itās himself thinking and talking dirty, or me talking dirty to him, describing what Iām doing to him. Wearing his favourite lingerie does the trick too.
But itās definitely a turn on for me when I can get him hard by performing oral on him.
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Not long at all. Yesterday i was only looking at him, giving him eye contact and he told me to stop as we were out having a meal
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Depends on my mood really.
Sometimes I can be hard in seconds and sometimes it takes some vigorous work on her part.
ā¦ but I am 71.
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Before i have even started
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My OH just has to smile at me and the wee fella says Hi!
Always hard before being touched I find. As my girlf says, she is yet to find an occasion where I am not āreadyā. She gets a little concerned about it, I just remind her it is a compliment to how sexy I find her.
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Last night my hubby was in the basement and I told him to get upstairs. I told him Iād get started without him, but I could send him pics of what I was up to. Well, he came running up the stairs fully hard within 30 seconds 
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Yeah doesnāt take me long at all the wife can talk about sex and I start getting hard without any touching lol
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Takes maybe half a second. Any mention fo having fun and Iām ready to go.
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I wouldnāt have told you to stopā¦ id just adjust my seating position.
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Sometimes just words will get my man hard in seconds. I particularly like to excite him by telling him Iām horny that usually does it.
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My wifeās got a new trick that once I am hard she pops a cock ring on me - just got a new stretchy one from LH which is great as it can go on when already hard and yet it has a good āgripā too. Once like that Iām all hers for pretty much as long (or as hard!) as she wants.
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Yeah this happens without even being touched haha. Only time it was a problem for me was going through fertility treatment where everything is so scheduled and almost transactional. That was much harder. (Actuallyā¦ it wasnāt as hardā¦ ugh Iāll go away now )