Getting partner hard

How long does it take to get your partner hard if you are stroking his cock ?
It takes my wife about 10 seconds to achieve this.

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Must admit self control is not one of my strengths, as soon as sex is even mentions as being on the cards up it pings like those automated toll gate barriers!

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Not long at all, if doing just what you described it’s probably the same. If I want him hard hands free I wear lingerie or some other tricks but it’s quite easy and that’s if I’ve beat him to it, sometimes he’s way ahead of me.
I’m jealous how quickly he’s ready compared to me who is naturally a slow starter :sweat_smile:

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He’s hard as my hand is reaching for him, all it takes is a dirty twinkle and a smile and :arrow_up: never timed it :rofl:

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I’ve found some men to be voice activated, no touch needed! :rofl:

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Always been quick and within the 10-20 seconds. Did have a complete no show this week for the first time ever.

Husband - Was full wanting sex , body little tired after long day. Had edged once during day no issues. It just wouldn’t get hard , then psychologically mind was thinking about it and not going up which made it worse. Tried and tried couldn’t recover from it so gave up. Would be interested of similar experiences! Just turned 40 so paranoid it’s all down hill :joy:

Wife - usually always quick and this was first time, didn’t want to make awkward as it wasn’t for me as long as it wasn’t me turning him off ha! But know it was impacting husband more from pride , not getting up stigma.

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@Daisy1982 . I’m nearly 60 , I rarely maintain an erection these days , and takes me ages to get hard . The worse thing , is that my wife says its because shes “all fat and frumpy” ( her words) . This makes me feel bad , because it isn’t true . In turn , this adds to the tension, which means it harder to get hard .
In your case , I’d say it was just a one off , it’s happened to most fellas. No ones "fault " . Don’t make an issue of it , and try againater . I bet it will be like an iron girder next time !!!
Enjoy :+1:

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It literally takes him seconds to get hard. Most of the time he doesn’t have to be touched, wether it’s himself thinking and talking dirty, or me talking dirty to him, describing what I’m doing to him. Wearing his favourite lingerie does the trick too.
But it’s definitely a turn on for me when I can get him hard by performing oral on him.

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Play with his bum!

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Not long at all. Yesterday i was only looking at him, giving him eye contact and he told me to stop as we were out having a meal :joy:

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Depends on my mood really.

Sometimes I can be hard in seconds and sometimes it takes some vigorous work on her part.


… but I am 71.

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Before i have even started :rofl:

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My OH just has to smile at me and the wee fella says Hi!
Always hard before being touched I find. As my girlf says, she is yet to find an occasion where I am not ‘ready’. She gets a little concerned about it, I just remind her it is a compliment to how sexy I find her.

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Last night my hubby was in the basement and I told him to get upstairs. I told him I’d get started without him, but I could send him pics of what I was up to. Well, he came running up the stairs fully hard within 30 seconds :smirk::heart_eyes:

Yeah doesn’t take me long at all the wife can talk about sex and I start getting hard without any touching lol

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Takes maybe half a second. Any mention fo having fun and I’m ready to go.

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I wouldn’t have told you to stop… id just adjust my seating position. :joy:

Ha - that’s me @RacyRosalee :star_struck:
If my wife gives a quick flash for a laugh - I’m in trouble!!! :heart_eyes: :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: :lovehoney_heart_2:

Sometimes just words will get my man hard in seconds. I particularly like to excite him by telling him I’m horny that usually does it.

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My wife’s got a new trick that once I am hard she pops a cock ring on me - just got a new stretchy one from LH which is great as it can go on when already hard and yet it has a good ‘grip’ too. Once like that I’m all hers for pretty much as long (or as hard!) as she wants.

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