Girth or length

[MrFox1990]

If the start-point is average size and I obsolutelly need to chose I'd prefer lengt. But ideally want both :D

[VR]

Girth for me, too. I find too much length downright painful!

[Fire_Ice1]

I’m 5.5 inches length erect and 4.5 inches in girth. I know nothing amazing or porn star like probably around the average or a bit below average. Thankfully never really had any complaints even though I do think about my it a bit.

I told my wife of 18 years about my small insecurity about my Penis size. Even before that she used to say that she loves my cock and loves size of it and it’s great etc she’s really good like that.

I mentioned about wearing a penis extender to make me a bit longer and girthier and she said it won’t do anything extra for her as she’s a Clitoral orgasm woman but said if I wanted to she would give it a go.

I said I would probably leave it if she doesn’t think she’ll benefit.

But it’s been on my mind a bit and just purchased from LH a two inch extender girthier Schlong.

Will try it out with her at some point and she or try to gauge what she honestly feels about it. I certainly don’t mind if she wants me to wear it every now and again for her and she does lots of great stuff to me.

If you fancy replying what would your favourite girth size be as there are different extenders just in case it’s a hit and I surprise her with girthier…

4.5 inches girth or 5.75 inches girth or 6.5 inches girth or more?! Hehe…

[walsh111]

Definitely girth for me…love to feel that stretch and full feeling

[L_amp_M25]

I actually dont have a preference, the oh did buy a extender which we used a couple of times but i would rather have him without using it.

[cfcmattyc]

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[sweetinstockings]

Definitely girth for me - anything too long is just painful and a complete turn-off.

[lace21]

Maybe it’s just the person not the size or girth surely just because they got a fat cock but they done nothing for you it can’t be the greatest

[naturalbushblondie]

Girth For Me …I would rather be stretched

[Samantha0]

As much girth as possible.

[Lucas04]

@Fire_Ice1 I’m not much bigger than you when erect. Always been a generous lover and never had any complaints. My wife calls my cock “beautiful”.

She’s also a clit orgasm girl … but I suspect this is in part be because she isn’t very adventurous, and hasn’t tried to find what else might feel good.

Long-story short, after some big chats about why girth could really feel good for her (fun, warm chats, but also with a touch of scientific backing), I bought the Vixen Colossus extender - from LH of course.

We’ve only tried it a few times, and haven’t quite got it all the way yet … but she’s had immense orgasms even having just the first 3 inches inside, stretching her. I don’t move too much … just let her enjoy the feeling and get used to it.

She’d had lovers before we met, but never had a REALLY big penis experience. There was one guy who was larger, but not big enough to make enough difference during PIV. The extender is the biggest she’s seen/had.

My OH gets embarrassed talking about sex, but loves doing it with me. I can tell she struggles with the idea that she might really enjoy something so non-vanilla. I just keep telling her I love her, and want her to experience the best sex ever. She’s slowly coming around … no pun intended

[Peggingand_fun]

length much over 7 or 8 inches is just too long. But girth, I’ll take circumference of 8.5 inches all day

[Fire_Ice1]

@Lucas04 - hi, thanks for your reply and info and sounds like your partner is really enjoying the girth and I’ll chat to my wife again and see what we can come up with.

It’s a shame that not all men are born with the equal and perfect size length, girth and stamina

[Arabella1970]

We have been together since we were 18 and we’re 53 now but in all that time I have never once measured my husband, length or girth!!
I’m very curious to know but have no idea on howto broach it without making him feel like he’s inadequate!! He really is not…just about perfect I’d say. I can’t say I ever noticed much difference between men size wise although my experience is far from extensive so…

Anyway, would love to measure him. Just for the record. I ‘think’ he wishes he was bigger but what man doesn’t. Not very good at estimating but I reckon between 5.5 and 6 inches in length…girth?? Really could not hazard a guess
How could I broach this with him…it is purely my own curiosity

[Arabella1970]

Cocks ARE beautiful!! One of my recurring dreams is that I have one

[Arabella1970]

[Fire_Ice1]

Just ask him or send him a discreet sexy message. I wouldn’t mind if my wife asked me or wanted a measure. She said she’s happy with my size but I wish I was 1.5 inches longer and 1 inch more girth and porno style stamina increase

[AWB1955]

Wait till.he is asleep and his c…k.is hard then measure it @Arabella1970

[Arabella1970]

It’s just sheer curiosity on my part!

It all started cos I saw a porn film that I liked and so I sent him the link.He watched it but his first comment to me was ‘wow, he’s a big guy’…now when I watched it I genuinely hadn’t been aware of the size of the guy’s cock so I said ‘was he? I didn’t notice!’ He refuses to believe I didn’t notice but I truly genuinely hadn’t !! Then he sort of got the arse with me about it. Later I rewatched it and he was right - the guy’s cock must have been at least 8 inches…how the hell I’d missed that, I don’t know!! So I think I may have inadvertently given him a size complex by saying I liked that film even though I’d been oblivious …which now makes me feel bad cos the very last thing I want to do is make him think that I wished he was bigger as I’v never once thought that.

[wc]

Same. I’m a bi guy and love both to be honest.