If the start-point is average size and I obsolutelly need to chose I'd prefer lengt. But ideally want both :D
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Girth for me, too. I find too much length downright painful!
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Iām 5.5 inches length erect and 4.5 inches in girth. I know nothing amazing or porn star like probably around the average or a bit below average. Thankfully never really had any complaints even though I do think about my it a bit.
I told my wife of 18 years about my small insecurity about my Penis size. Even before that she used to say that she loves my cock and loves size of it and itās great etc sheās really good like that.
I mentioned about wearing a penis extender to make me a bit longer and girthier and she said it wonāt do anything extra for her as sheās a Clitoral orgasm woman but said if I wanted to she would give it a go.
I said I would probably leave it if she doesnāt think sheāll benefit.
But itās been on my mind a bit and just purchased from LH a two inch extender girthier Schlong.
Will try it out with her at some point and she or try to gauge what she honestly feels about it. I certainly donāt mind if she wants me to wear it every now and again for her and she does lots of great stuff to me.
If you fancy replying what would your favourite girth size be as there are different extenders just in case itās a hit and I surprise her with girthierā¦
4.5 inches girth or 5.75 inches girth or 6.5 inches girth or more?! Heheā¦ 
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Definitely girth for meā¦love to feel that stretch and full feeling
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I actually dont have a preference, the oh did buy a extender which we used a couple of times but i would rather have him without using it.
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Definitely girth,I love to feeling being completely stretched and full. The biggest toy I can insert is a buttplug with a circumference of 10.25 inch
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Definitely girth for me - anything too long is just painful and a complete turn-off.
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Maybe itās just the person not the size or girth surely just because they got a fat cock but they done nothing for you it canāt be the greatest
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Girth For Me ā¦I would rather be stretched
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As much girth as possible.
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@Fire_Ice1 Iām not much bigger than you when erect. Always been a generous lover and never had any complaints. My wife calls my cock ābeautifulā.
Sheās also a clit orgasm girl ā¦ but I suspect this is in part be because she isnāt very adventurous, and hasnāt tried to find what else might feel good.
Long-story short, after some big chats about why girth could really feel good for her (fun, warm chats, but also with a touch of scientific backing), I bought the Vixen Colossus extender - from LH of course.
Weāve only tried it a few times, and havenāt quite got it all the way yet ā¦ but sheās had immense orgasms even having just the first 3 inches inside, stretching her. I donāt move too much ā¦ just let her enjoy the feeling and get used to it.
Sheād had lovers before we met, but never had a REALLY big penis experience. There was one guy who was larger, but not big enough to make enough difference during PIV. The extender is the biggest sheās seen/had.
My OH gets embarrassed talking about sex, but loves doing it with me. I can tell she struggles with the idea that she might really enjoy something so non-vanilla. I just keep telling her I love her, and want her to experience the best sex ever. Sheās slowly coming around ā¦ no pun intended 
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length much over 7 or 8 inches is just too long. But girth, Iāll take circumference of 8.5 inches all day
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@Lucas04 - hi, thanks for your reply and info and sounds like your partner is really enjoying the girth and Iāll chat to my wife again and see what we can come up with.
Itās a shame that not all men are born with the equal and perfect size length, girth and stamina
We have been together since we were 18 and weāre 53 now but in all that time I have never once measured my husband, length or girth!!
Iām very curious to know but have no idea on howto broach it without making him feel like heās inadequate!! He really is notā¦just about perfect Iād say. I canāt say I ever noticed much difference between men size wise although my experience is far from extensive soā¦
Anyway, would love to measure him. Just for the record. I āthinkā he wishes he was bigger but what man doesnāt. Not very good at estimating but I reckon between 5.5 and 6 inches in lengthā¦girth?? Really could not hazard a guess
How could I broach this with himā¦it is purely my own curiosity 
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Cocks ARE beautiful!! One of my recurring dreams is that I have one 
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Just ask him or send him a discreet sexy message. I wouldnāt mind if my wife asked me or wanted a measure. She said sheās happy with my size but I wish I was 1.5 inches longer and 1 inch more girth and porno style stamina increase
Itās just sheer curiosity on my part!
It all started cos I saw a porn film that I liked and so I sent him the link.He watched it but his first comment to me was āwow, heās a big guyāā¦now when I watched it I genuinely hadnāt been aware of the size of the guyās cock so I said āwas he? I didnāt notice!ā He refuses to believe I didnāt notice but I truly genuinely hadnāt !! Then he sort of got the arse with me about it. Later I rewatched it and he was right - the guyās cock must have been at least 8 inchesā¦how the hell Iād missed that, I donāt know!! So I think I may have inadvertently given him a size complex by saying I liked that film even though Iād been oblivious 
ā¦which now makes me feel bad cos the very last thing I want to do is make him think that I wished he was bigger as Iāv never once thought that.