We’re also considering, for hygiene reasons, wearing gloves when getting it on. Anyone have any suggestions on that?
Is this for anal play or just generally?
Just generally.
Nope. Skin to skin contact when touching is what makes it special ![]()
I agree with Stacy, I get gloves for some anal play and for role play perhaps, but I like skin to skin contact
It’s up to you, really. What are you looking to get/avoid by using gloves?
For me it’s a no given it’d reduce a lot of the intimacy I’m looking for from sex.
No gloves, I need the feel of skin. Is there more to your consideration about gloves @Geraint_and_Katie ?
No need for gloves for regular sex. Like everyone else has said, skin to skin contact is wonderful and you can just wash your hands later if they get sticky.
Couldn’t think of anything more of a turn off to be honest
I can’t think of anything more yuck to be honest
Wash your hands with soap first if germs are that much of a concern
Most definitely not. I love the skin to skin contact. For Me it makes it more passionate and intimate, feeling gloves instead of him - definitely a mood killer.
As everyone has said skin to skin contact is the best feeling as it’s the connection between the two of you, but gloves is great for the build up adding a bit of teasing/foreplay.
@Geraint_and_Katie
I would never have thought to wear gloves when having sex.
(And this is coming from a straight 33 year old virgin.)
But, maybe other people do.
And, I would suppose that most people wouldn’t even think about gloves! They’d just get naked! (With a condom, of course!)
How about asbestos mittens?
You both do what you feel is right but messy can be fun and that skin to skin connection is just the bees knees
This question and @WillC comment did make me think of this
I wish you both the best going forward with this, but maybe the best advice is to copy Nike and “Just do it”
@Geraint_and_Katie I think gloves are sexy for dressing up, but perhaps you could find some that are machine washable to wear that look good at the same time as hygienic. ![]()
No chance of wearing gloves, wife would think she was having a hospital examination if i did which is never a turn on.
The only time i would consider gloves might be part of role play, maybe some lace ones and use them for sensual touching over his skin.
Mrs W here ………
Gloves??? Gloves??? ………….. noooooooooooo x
If we’re in medical fetish play, then yes absolutely. Otherwise, no.