Going for a second round

Somewhere along the way I’ve gotten into the (bad) habbit of falling asleep after my first orgasm. Generally feel sleepy and at that point disinterested.

Always make sure the wife gets to climax first but as she likes to cum multiple times I know she gets left frustrated after I do.

Any tips on how I can get psyched up for a second round? Think I’m going to lake it easy, spend some time pleasuring the missus and then see if she can help arouse me and get ready for round 2 … ding ding

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I’ve never been able to do the intentional encore in an uninterrupted session. We’ve had a few times in our years together where wife said “go ahead and cum without me” at bedtime only to find herself restless and unable to sleep 10/20/30 minutes later. Then she busts out a favorite toy and I’m usually ready to hop back in for another release while she finishes.

I do fantasize about taking the time to do this intentionally and strategically with a longer play afternoon planned - just has been challenging to make that time with small children and lockdowns. Soon!

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My Husband stays rock hard after his orgasm (I’ve told him he is super human).

He often won’t orgasm again but is happy to continue, or for me to “help myself to his :eggplant:”.

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Unfortunately once Ive cum nine times out of 10 I lose all interest in sex I just want to eat or sleep.

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At my age I’m definitely ‘done after one’ but I always make sure my wife is fully orgasmed either before I come or after (if she’s still in the mood) using fingers, my tongue, toys or dildos.

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What really helps me and my wife getting ready for a second, is just go start playing again after I have orgasmed.
When I have come inside her or on her I don’t mind cleaning her up.
I just start from the beginning by kissing her and work may way down to her pussy and give her oral and cleaning her up in the process.

But I don’t mind tasting and cleaning up my own. It took some time to find the courage. We started with cumkissing/snowballing after a blowjob, then me cleaning it of her boobs and then giving her oral after I came inside her.

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Yeah I love the sound of this until the point that I cum! Lol … Pretty sure that is not uncommon. I like the idea of starting again though and working my way towards it, that could work!

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That is not uncommon indeed, but the more you do it the easier it gets. Get the courage and just do it, you won’t regret it.

Start doing it when you are not completely done orgasming, that what worked for me in the beginnig. I stay rock hard when I do this and ready for round 2.

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This is exactly us too :rofl:

When we’re finished he’ll say “help yourself” and I’ll give him another head :smirk:

Ha, same but I normally jump on for cowgirl. Grinding doesn’t do much for him (he prefers me to bounce) but he enjoys the view.

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I think I’d need to sleep too after I’d cum nine times! :joy::joy:.

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Cor a round 2 for me would be non existent as once I’ve climaxed I’m literally done for the day :hear_no_evil:
I do find it fascinating though how some horny men can keep going up to 5 rounds

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Have you thought about introducing food or changing pensions?? I use to fall asleep if I’d had a drink or hadn’t slept enough. Moving around during sex keeps you awake but users energy try having something sweet like strawberries and cream use them on her as a way to stimulate her climax & hopefully your see round two

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Yes, that’s basically how I feel, all interested just dissapears in a second and I want to sleep! Going to fight the urge next time and see if I can break through the barrier!

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My pension is okay I think but good idea on the food, maybe some chocolate or sugar could help perk me up again and help a reset

I need to just have a quick slow down for 30-60 seconds before I can continue as long as I stay inside her. I am super sensitive for that period so have to stop, but I stay hard and am ready to go afterwards. I think I heard on one of the LH podcasts that there are some pheromones that females produce that keep men hard.
Pretty much 99% of the time I can stay hard but only 25% of the time I can orgasm again, with each subsequent time it takes longer for me, but not her.

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Sure i read years ago that once you ejaculate a hormone is released that encourages sleep, which i guess is more effective if you’re having sex late at night.

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Maybe porn might help a little but sometimes this can literally just be down to hormones as you get the rush and then it’s like all that ejaculates out and your empty needing to rebuild up again

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If the wife is still horny after we both have come i slowly start pleasuring her like going down on her, massaging her back . As she starts to groan i get excited and hard again. May take 5 - 10 minutes to get there though.

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Before sex I often fantasize about going more than once, but after I orgasm, all urges go. Its the release of hormones into your body that produces the satisfied / zen like state.

Of the few times that I have gone back for a 2nd innings, there has been a gap in between, drink / snack break being the most common, or just going back to pleasure her (oral, toys, fingers) or even a massage or similar. Allow the arousal to rebuild but don’t try and rush or force it.

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