Does anyone try and refrain from masturbating in between sessions with partners? We are both used to doing it frequently but last year my husband decided he was going to try not to do it in between sex together, which is normally 2-3 a week.
He got onto this idea when he had without wanking for about 8 days on a trip last year. He said it made him feel extremely horny, which he enjoys the feeling of and said he hasn’t had the same feeling for ages, since he started to masturbate regularly.
He says it takes a bit of willpower but he has gone without for nearly 4 months now and his orgasms do seem to be very intense. I don’t mind if he masturbates or not at all but wondering if anyone else goes without masturbating?
Certainly, not masturbating between sessions together would make any relief more intense when it occurs. I have tried not masturbating between our lovemaking bouts because I have had issues orgasming. But I wouldn’t go 4 months between cumming on my own. That is too limiting. We are not getting together 2-3 times a week, if that was the case I might leave myself alone.
Whatever he decides will be at how it feels for him. Longer times between sex will most likely bring an increase in horniness. Have fun experimenting with it.
I don’t refrain intentionally. I’ve certainly masturbated many times in my life, a lot in my first marriage as our sex life wasn’t good for either of us.
I mean, one year my 1st wife and I only had sex 2 times in the entire year so you can bet I was masturbating.
I rarely masturbate now because I do it between my wife’s breasts, a lot. No, I can’t say I/we do that each and everyday, but honestly it’s close. And there are several days where we do that two times in a day.
She and I have PIV 1 to 2 times a week and she and I use toys on her other times.
I’m not against masturbating and I’ve done it many times in my life, but not all that much since getting with my current wife.
Now I do other things with her too, using my fingers and my mouth on her in addition to her toys so both of us are still climaxing and reaching orgasms with each other.
We have a regular Sunday session, we schedule it for every Sunday. So I’ll masturbate say Tuesday/wednesday. Then try and hold off for Sunday. The anticipation makes it soooo good
I have to admit I do the same thing, if anything masturbating for me is quite boring. Personally I prefer the touch and feel of my partner far more than I do myself, and I can confirm the orgasm’s are much stronger and feel soo much better! that’s not to say I occasionally don’t but it’s more for a bit of fun for us both as a bit of a tease before actually getting to enjoy each other.
I would rather have my OH involved in the process too it is nice being close and sharing the experience, but it is difficult to get her to play along. So I take care of myself occasionally, that is a mixed blessing as then I don’t get as strong an orgasm when we do get together.
I have masturbated a lot and regularly since being younger and especially through my 20’s into my 30’s. My wife knows and has no problem with it as she likes me to do it, likes to watch and likes to do it herself!
For the last few years I have cut back on watching porn as I felt this had become too much and too often and for a lot of years. I found I didn’t need to wank as much, maybe 2 times a week down from almost everyday. I’ve also found more powerful orgasms with doing it less.
In the past year or so I’ve basically stopped doing it, the desire has basically vanished. Most of my adult life barely a day would have passed of course like most people.
We recently had the May challenge on LH and I scored a total of zero.
Still active with my partner, but interest in solo play has gone, hmmm.
When we’re apart I’ll occasionally abstain the day before wifey comes home, but if she’s traveling then my masturbation is pretty helpful in self-regulating while I’m on solo parent duty for the week. I also just have a shit time trying to sleep without an orgasm to shut down for the day.
When we’re home we’re closer to daily sex than not, so going without between sessions is not a big deal. I think I can count on my hands with several fingers leftover the number of times since marrying that I’ve masturbated when we weren’t apart overnight.
I can honestly say that this would be a definitely
“No Chance” from me
I seem to have such a high sex drive, I would be so frustrated if i didn’t masturbate in between us having sex or even our mutual masturbation sessions
On the odd occasion that ive not masturbated, my orgasm is more intense but i don’t last as long
My wife on the other hand can go without, as she has a lower sex drive
I don’t purposefully abstain from masturbating, but I can go weeks between either pleasuring myself and sex with my OH. If I do get the urge, then I’ll do something about it, but then again so does she.
