Oh wow.
I've not been monitoring this thread or the forum in general much the past couple of weeks due to ill health and i'm overwhelmed by the amount of comments on here. Thank you to everyone who has submitted positive feedback, i'm happy that I managed to write something eloquent that made sense!
Few people who raised comments:
Firstly, I definitely get that eating pussy and all similar variants can be taken as cringeworthy. Not the intention, I simply struggled to find other appropriate wording at the time!
@Topcat07
It's important to realise that indeed, every woman is different and will have preferences (which can also change) from hard pressure to gentle as an example. It's very important for your partner to communicate to you what she likes the most and if she wants more pressure/faster movements and on what area. If she doesn't know then you can (and should) turn it into an enjoyable learning experience for both of you.
As an example, my partner loves me to firmly use the tip of my tongue where her clit meets the clit hood, she also like me dragging the flat of my tongue slowly over her entire vulva. It really is all about communication and finding out what your lady likes.
Also, don't worry about being inexperienced as we have all been there! Practice practice practice!
@Alastor
I completely agree with everything you said about consistency. If your lady is clearly getting off on what you are the doing, the worst thing you can do is completely change. Rhythm, pressure, motion are all things you should not change if your lady is enjoying herself.
Also, a communicative woman *IS* a massive turnon, and very very important.
@mrsdivine69
Thanks for the compliment. However, I disagree with much of what you wrote.
For too long men have been expected to know what to do to please a woman, for the man to be the quintessential alpha male and to take control and for the female to simply accept what is given.
Your post highlights this issue.
It may come as a surprise to find that someone who has had two sexual partners was able to write the guide that you praised so much. One of these was a woman who expected body-trembling orgasms whilst communicating nothing and expecting a high level of skill. This same woman had been with over ten partners at the time and complained than none of them were able to bring her to orgasm through oral sex.
It is so so easy to expect a man to simply get down to business and know what to do. Men are not born with the knowledge or skillset to provide excellent oral. It is learned and skill develops over a period of time with that partner. Whilst my guide highlights the major key points, on each of them there will be varying nuances from partner to partner, and the journey to excellent oral with each partner requires effort, commitment, dedicated and COMMUNICATION from BOTH sides.
On the flip side, if a guy slams a woman for providing poor oral is that the woman's fault? Whilst oral on a man is siginifcantly easier as everything is visible, again each man has their own niche that needs to be communicated to derive maximum pleasure. It works both ways but for so long women have had the attitude that you have portrated in your post and I find it very narrow-minded.
As an aside having read your posts over this weekend, I think you need to be more considered when posting as I, and several others, have found your overtly flirtatious tones rather nauseating.
