patience is a virtue and edging leads to a waterfall of cumanda earth shaking orgasm too
i'm no good at edging- i often accidentally either slow down or stop too late and then either have a very unsatisfying orgasm or become too sensitive!!
need to practise more- what a shame (not)!
if you do it whilst watching some porn you tend to drift a bit so try that it works for me
katmiaow wrote:
i'm no good at edging- i often accidentally either slow down or stop too late and then either have a very unsatisfying orgasm or become too sensitive!!
need to practise more- what a shame (not)!
Bumping this thread -
This is exactly what happens to me. I don't seem to be very good at edging.
The sensation builds up and I either have to cum or lose the sensation and then be really frustrated that I lost the opportunity to orgasm (because its going to happen anyway and its not strong)
I generally masturbate using clitoral stimulation and love to orgasm when the sensation is so intense, combined with using a dildo which makes it even stronger but I don't seem to be able to do this edging malarky.
Any tips?? x
Noon wrote:
Likewise, never heard of it. But yes, do it 90% of times!
Same here
i do it all the time when im playing in a place where i shouldnt be!
In a place you shouldn't be??
It is interesting to read about the girls needing to practice, I think LMD might be onto something about the pleasant distraction.
LittleKitty wrote:
The sensation builds up and I either have to cum or lose the sensation and then be really frustrated that I lost the opportunity to orgasm (because its going to happen anyway and its not strong)I generally masturbate using clitoral stimulation and love to orgasm when the sensation is so intense, combined with using a dildo which makes it even stronger but I don't seem to be able to do this edging malarky.
Any tips?? x
I'm a bit like that too; if the sensation is strong enough I don't want to back off because it seems to take ages to get it back again. However, I've been using kegel balls (the Fun Factory variety from LH) for the last 3 weeks or so and I notice that I seem to be able to bring myself to orgasm from masturbation much more quickly than before and orgasms seem to be more intense.
I still haven't tried holding off on orgasm though, but thats the next step. Have you tried using Kegel balls?
Ecksvie wrote:
My boyfriend does this on me when he's using my toys, it drives me mad, and not in the good way!
Yes so does mine but I know he drops his own orgasm to keep going and recently he appears to have cum harder from it. So i'm assuming its a good thing???
as for doing it to me, drives me mad and when you're a squirter it can actually hurt quite a bit!
katmiaow wrote:
i'm no good at edging- i often accidentally either slow down or stop too late and then either have a very unsatisfying orgasm or become too sensitive!!
need to practise more- what a shame (not)!
Me too but i love doing it to my OH i've kept him on the edge for hours and he said the orgasm at the end was one of the best External Media
I have just completed my first attempt at edging and if I'm honest it was amazing. I have never came so hard. Very sexy and will be doing it more often. Wish I'd heard of it before now!
nice one kev!
Didn't realise till recently this had a name. Bit of stopping and starting always makes me blow like a pro.
Yes - love it. So difficult sometimes to get it right. Sometimes I lose!
I do love edging, sometimes small orgasims emerge maybe 2 or 3 and then the big whoooosh.
Bumping thread.
I'd say this is 90% of my sex life. Texting, leaving notes and setting a date for sex is all edging to me.
The final physical act is just the apex, to prelong this final pleasure is awesome.
I like the connection of knowing your sharing this whole experience with your lover. Learning together how to edge each other is wonderful bonding experience and can take years to learn.
Prostate stimulation really lends its self to being edged. Having a woman who knows how to edge her man is just so amazing. When this aroused its possible to milk the prostate and only take the clear Pre cum. However with practice eventually give that elusive prostate orgasm without even touching the penis.
It's such a huge increase in male pleasure. I'd liken it to being 3 times bigger and longer in time, volume and pleasure.
Edging is definitely common practice for me as well! When I masturbate I love dragging it out for a long time, to make the ending much more explosive!
We do that with my girlfriend as well sometimes, I love having her tease me for a long time, it makes the release much more enjoyable!
Its the feeling of being made to leak Pre cum . edging helps the prostate and Cowper's gland throb pulsatate I do kegels so I can squeeze it . they then give up the clear Pre cum.
Always used to just shake one out untill a few months ago till i decided to try this. With a bit of practice it realy makes a differance.
I tend to get myself close and than stop for a few hours and than go again and will try holding off climaxing for a few days. I have had on a few occasions where i have stoped as i'm getting close but i will still ejaculate. Not the normal as i dont orgasm and its very light in colour and watery. I also stay hard and don't loose my erection like i would normally do when i cum.
When i do cum, it's a lot stronger and my load is bigger.
Mr Badger.