Hi, my problem is that mentally I seem unable to cum despite the best efforts of my OH to get me there and some energetic sex for us two! We've got to the stage where penetrative sex is not the be all and end all, and let our fingers do the talking more than we used to do. But, I still don't know why I can't finish inside her and I think it makes her feel a bit guilty too. We're both very concious about our bodies (we both need to lose weight) and this doesn't help as it makes her feel I don't find her attractive enough when I really do!
Don't know if anyone has any ideas, more just getting it off my chest.