Hi folks,
I can't quite believe the weekend we've had... If anyone had told me on friday morningwhat I was going to get up to Friday night, saturday afternoon, saturday night and sunday morning I'd have said they were in need of professional help. Wow! Mind-blown away and pussy totally knackerd....
Anyway, to cut a very long story short, 3some on the cards in the next few weeks and Mr M is now having a spot of "performance anxiety" already. It's been a long time since he came twice in one evening, he was some 10 years younger then and although I have suggested he should get some practice in, I do want to help him out here. We've already talked about all the ways he can be involved and not cum, but what I want to know is if any of you, especially from those of you who are over 35 yrs male, swing or have threesomes- how do you keep it going and any tips to be able to cum more than once in an evening?
I've put him on a training regime, so he's pretty much up for anything right now!
hope you can help,
M
When I was younger I was a 3 sometimes on one rare occasion 5 times a night kinda guy.
Nowadays it's once a night. Twice maybe three times a day at most.
I've noticed I spend about the same time having sex, just in longer sessions rather than small bursts.
Is Mr Mercuria's problem getting it back up again? or is he just not (like me) that turned on after he's cum?
I think it is more of a case of can't always get it back up as he's totally spent
What does your training regime involve? Lots of pomegranate juice and repeated pleasuring on a Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit?!
What about coaxing some life back out of him by say, having a sexy massage of him after he's come. And then going down on him till he's hard again. Everyone's a winner. Apart from yourself as you put in all the work.
Communication and preidentification of turn ons and fantasies- a useful start point, but have to be prepared to push back the boundaries !!!!!
Tallboy
Ahh, wise words indeed. He's been practicing the "cock goes up, cock goes down" routine to see if he can build stamina, and we're working on early evening orgasms and then a late night one (the aim being to gradually reduce the time between the two) and lots of blow jobs-sounds all very clinical and anal (no, not in a good way!)but he's enjoying himself, bless him!
He's taking plenty of multi-vitamins and is making sure he gets enough sleep,cardio exercise to keep the blood vessels healthy, a double dose of porn and I'm rapdily running out of erotic stories and fatansies.
I think the issue has been that he puts so much effort and enthusiam into what he's doing he ends up totally knackered afterwards and just wants to go to sleep(and before you even suggest it you cheeky bunch, I'm not exactly lying back, filing my nails and thinking of England you know!) I suppose I could always stick pins in him to keep him awake.....?
I've made a deal with him that when this 3some comes off, he doesn't need to worry about cumming in /on/around me- he just needs to enjoy the whole experience.
anyway, you can't knock a good training regime!