Me and my gf of two years decided to try an open relationship whilst I'm on my year abroad. She's slept with two people, I haven't slept with any, I also discovered some slight insecurities I think, but overall I'm not happy and I've been homesick and haven't felt good about anything to do with this for about three weeks. I've talked to her before and I've changed my mind on it and tried to go for it, I've felt really positive about it and excited.
But now I'm certain I want it to stop, just until I return from my YA and we can sort it out. But she has discovered this new side to herself and loves it, and is in a massive pickle over her feelings and not wanting to shy away from who she is and also wanting me to be happy.
At the same time I don't want her to force herself to not be who she is but at the same time I don't think it's very selfish of me to want her to not be in the open relationship. We had boundaries and rules and shit they havent been Broken, it's just a complete mess of a situation and I could use some advice if anyone has any