I set myself a challenge, well kind of my boyfriend said no partner had accepted him anally, I can see why because for me he his very girth blessed at a 7.5” circumference so I took this as I would be the 1st.
Anal was all new to me, so I started with the metal plugs, and worked up to easily using the 3.5” circumference.
Forwarding on I can manage with ease, a dildo with 5.5” circumference. So I bought the Realistic extra girthy with a circumference of 6.5”, it took me a few days just to get the head in, pulling that in and out as set me on a determination path of sizing up to my man. After I week I could get the whole of the extra girthy dildo, in and play ok.
Now this is the hard part, I bought the large classic silicone butt plug, the circumference is 7.5” it just won’t go in, obviously I have in the back of my head, what if I can’t get it out so I do think that is stopping me from fully relaxing.
I have tried putting it on the toilet seat, and putting my feet on a stool, and putting my hands on the side lifting myself up and lowering down.
The stretch is insane, and it’s just the last widest bit that won’t go in. I have seen the Doc Johnson is 7.25” circumference, the question is would I be better off getting that, and working my way up eventually to the 7.5” or just keep persevering, and stop being so greedy in doing the challenge.
That is an admirable challenge for 2026 and we are only 6 day’s into it so take some time and don’t rush. You will get there. But do what feels good for you.
Slow and steady wins the race! See it as doing anal exercises. To progress you need to keep doing them a few times a week so maybe every other day and in time you’ll get there
As someone who loves anal play, I’ve had good success by habitually using plugs and dilators and slowly building up to the size that I want. That, quality lube, patience are the keys to success imo. Also it really helps to masturbate while doing it. A little extra pleasure makes the process more enjoyable.
Been doing a lot of researching since my initial question it’s not a plug I need, it’s a very girthy dildo, to get used to.
Looking for an anal dildo where the shaft just under tip is around 2.2-2.4cm diameter.
It’s the entry me and partner are struggling with for anal, as he is extremely large and wide from the tip, and the research says I need to get to a point, where in 15-20 minutes, I can easily insert, remove, insert 2” of the girth easily.
However finding a toy with that large girth near the tip is extremely hard to find
Can very easily use the lovehoney lifelike lover, just need that slightly extra width.
Fallen down a very large rabbit hole trying to find something, can anyone help
Hey @user2042
How did you get on with your anal challenge?
I’m in a similar place atm where im stretching to be able to take my ohs penis, luckily for me he’s not as girthy as your oh as I don’t think I’d ever get to taking 7.5" girth. I admire you determination and perseverance and am keen to know if you guys got there?
Im very much taking it slowly and enjoying the journey and just about to buy a bigger dildo to continue stretching.
I tend to masturbate using my clit suction toy whilst having my dildo in and have been having some incredible orgasms
I have seen an anal training cone. I am not sure if it is a LH item though. It is designed to be used to train the stretching needed so the further you stretch the lower you go on the cone. The more I think about it I think it is an item to train for fisting. You may need to search the forum I am sure there is something on here that can help you. But go slow and lots of lube and then more lube.
Yes we got there would 100% say don’t go with the butt plugs!
You need to get used to inserting just the tip of the dildo, pulling out and back in. You’re trying to train the initial stretch. I made the mistake of thinking to keep using all of it
Once you can really easily use the tip of one size, go up to the next, and keep just inserting and removing the tip.
so I took this as I would be the 1st.
it just won’t go in, obviously I have in the back of my head, what if I can’t get it out 
so I do think that is stopping me from fully relaxing.
I had no idea this forum existed
it’s not a plug I need, it’s a very girthy dildo, to get used to.
says I need to get to a point, where in 15-20 minutes, I can easily insert, remove, insert 2” of the girth easily.
would 100% say don’t go with the butt plugs!