Hello! You’ll find lots of info here. Welcome!
Hi @MrJay22, welcome to the forum! 
As others have suggested, using the search bar (at the top right hand side of the page) to find past discussions on first toys and sex advice is always really useful. If you can’t find what you are searching for there, you can always create a new thread where people can answer your specific queries. Hope this helps!
Hey @MrJay22, welcome to the forum
Certainly in the right place for advice. There are a lot of toys so it can be a bit of a minefield if you’re new to toys. Best to have a search on the forum as there is a lot of advice posted already.