Sexuality is such a difficult thing to define, if you are also attracted to men you could also be bisexual? In personal experience I like both genders, though have not yet had a female sexual partner, and often prefer lesbian porn simply because I find it’s less aggressive and objectifying.
But well done on talking about it, and hopefully you can spend some time figuring out who you are - don’t pressure yourself , there’s no rush and it’s okay to experiment!
In terms of online dating then don’t forget only other women looking for women will be able to see your profile.
Thank you I have had a few encounters with men but I don’t find them attractive. I think I’ve simply been trying to push down my sexuality and only now I feel like I need to experiment and be true to myself. I’ve only just got my first vibrator and found out what I’ve been missing
You can kick off your own Intro topic if you fancy your very own official forum welcome. If you click the blue ‘Create Your Intro!’ below it’ll start one off for you (though it’s not compulsory, so no pressure ).
I would consider myself bi but I have only had 2 sexual encounters with a woman a fair few years ago. I also find lesbian porn is more appealing than straight porn for me but I will watch both.
Toy wise I highly recommend looking into a clitoral suction toy or a magic wand
Thank you! I’ve been looking at toys, it’s all a bit daunting and exciting at the same time!
I’ve literally only got my first vibe less than a week ago and it has been great but it’s not quite enough. The girth isn’t big enough (3.25in), I got the smallest as I’m quite tight but I need something more but not too much more. I mainly use clitoral stimulation anyway and I am definitely thinking I will invest in a clitoral stim or a wand. They look and sound amazing!
If anyone has any vibrator recommendations for internal use that aren’t going to split me in half then that would be fab! I need vibration or something other than just a dildo.
Soon I’m going to end up with a drawer full of toys
It can be, I would suggest taking your time reading reviews etc to make sure it’s 100% what you want before committing. Nothing worse than buying something and only ever using it once or twice because it’s not what you expected I made that mistake a few times.
The first one I bought LH don’t sell anymore but he was perfect I think he was 6 inches in length and 4.75 in girth. I don’t often use the vibration on them though I prefer to use vibration on my clit at the same time
Haha don’t worry about it, I’ve got a bedside drawer full and I may need to put some in my under bed storage now and rotate them maybe
Hi @Closeted , female 20’s here.
Im not quite closeted, more that im still not sure what i am yet, though i completely get the whole:
I’ve had a similar experience in that i thought i might be for a long time but never really knew for sure until my first girlfriend i was intimate with.
it… wasn’t a very encouraging pursuit for female-female relations but it confirmed that i do actually have the attraction beyond just fantasy.
I did end up using my toys more often than not at the time so lots of experimenting for me haha.
just about anything to encourage blood flow to the clitoris is a must have, so things like clit/nipple suckers/pumps/squeezers before stimulating it with a vibrator or your fingers is simply heaven !
I’m definitely looking into nipple suckers as I think I will enjoy them. My new vibe is arriving tomorrow so I guess I know what I will be doing
As for my sexuality, I think being intimate with a girl will be what decides it. I’ve not long been honest with myself about this but now I have and I have allowed myself to explore my own body, I feel more content? Not sure if that is the right word. I’m also considering telling 3 of my closest friends on our next group chat. One of them is gay, the other has previously dated girls and the other is also exploring her sexuality so I think they will be the ones I tell first in real life. It’s scary but exciting at the same time. I won’t tell my parents until I am sure.
Hi @Closeted welcome to the forum, I’m sure you’ll learn loads of new tips on how to pleasure yourself!! Although I have a bf I know exactly what you mean about being attracted to girls and having that ‘stuck’ feeling. I hope you find a way to make it work for yourself
I have had a few encounters with men but I don’t find them attractive. I think I’ve simply been trying to push down my sexuality and only now I feel like I need to experiment and be true to myself. I’ve only just got my first vibrator and found out what I’ve been missing 
I made that mistake a few times.
