Hiya could I have some advice please?

Hiya this is the first time I've posted.

In my last relationship I was involved with a control freak and cutting a long story short , did a lot of stuff on webcam which to be honest I'm ashamed of.

My new partner who was a friend of several years knew all about my swinging history, but when I told him about my past on webcams, has took it quite hard. He knows his feelings are not rational but can't help it.

I love this guy to bits and hope to be married soon, any advice would be really grateful x