Maybe you should get you OH to watch some as well and she could get up there with you.
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It’s only pictures that I look at, not anything more.
We have had plenty of discussions about it, and she really tries to get it back, and loves trying new toys that we test, but it dies off. She has admitted that she does it for me rather than herself, which is lovely of her, but quite upsetting at the same time.
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If you dont mind me asking how old ar you both?
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Early 40’s
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Hmm your OH could be at the start of the menopause when things start to go up and down with her libido. Mine began around 45 and my sex drive went up and down for about five years then disappeared completely for 15 years but every woman is different. So just saying there could be a reason why your OHs sex drive is not as it used to be. There are other reasons such as work pressures, stresses, children the list goes on. Perhaps have a chat to see if she is worried abouf anything.
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I believe I was pretty horny when 21 , but have been getting hornier and hornier . Will be turning 68 soon . When a young man , a fellow’s cock could spring into action and get hard at the slightest suggestion . Rather nice that that does not happen now , would get me kicked out of family nudist camp . We keep trying to get my wife better , so she could get back into sexual play . I should have at least a Masters Degree in DIY solo sex .
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Same!