How do you get turned on to masturbate

This question seems backward to me. It implies that you want to masturbate, but need to get turned on to do it; whereas usually, you’re already turned on my something (or someone) and therefore will feel inclined to self-pleasure.

Unless, of course, you are engaging in some sort of prostate-cancer-preventative-measure, and want to achieve X amount of orgasms to maintain prostatic health…?

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That is true, I should have really asked

What gets you trurned on to want to masturbate

This is a question of masturbation and yes my prostate health is in the back of mind
I have read that ejection can reduce the risk of prostate cancer
I do have a high sex drive than my wife and do masturbatie more solo ,most of the time I can just jerk off but sometimes need a little extra stimulation normally visual like watching porn although we do have a few of our own videos
I think I could jerk off everyday if It helps

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There could be lots of reasons why you aren’t so turned on you need something to get you going.

People on anti depression medication might feel they want to masturbate but need something to help them.

My own circumstances is when i was in my dark days after my relationship breakup i often felt i needed to masturbate but couldn’t keep myself excited long enough :banana: so watching porn kept me going kept me excited.

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Meds can mess with alot libido wise.
Since i adjusted to my meds its been so much better but i still have to work to get turned on on my own. The majority of the time it has to be an intentional thing and even if i am lucky and just spontaneously horny for whatever reason, Its also very easy for it to disappear again half way through a session.

A good imagination or porn and stroking my skin are usually what i use. I also find if i relax, find a good headspace (its a tad like meditating), concentrate on my body and take deep breaths it helps alot as well.

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A fair call, that. Although I find that if you have to “force it” to get in the mood, it detracts from my experience when I do get going, and I don’t enjoy it nearly as much as when it comes naturally. For the most part (prior to my current proclivities!), I tend to let my libido guide when I perform, the exception being when I am being aroused by a horny Sexterminatrix…! :slight_smile:

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My penis is typically rubbing against something. my blankets or a pillow. I never wear underwear so my cock gets a lot of rubbing from the fabric of my pants or shorts.

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Being fully shaven also enhances the thrill

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My partner jerks me off, whispering in my ear if I’m thinking dirty thoughts, asking me if I’m thinking about her getting fucked by guys with big cocks, I say yes and she just calls me a dirty cunt while she’s tugging away on my cock. But the best memory I have with her is when she FaceTimed me in a friend’s house. She was in the bathroom with some stranger she had met at a party her friend was having. I could see that she looked a bit flustered, but the guy grabbed the phone from her hand and pointed it at his huge cock pounding away at her ass! Hottest thing I’ve ever seen.

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Yeah, that’s a story that’s constantly brought up! I’d been away for 2 months working and had one month to go, said to me that she was gagging to get fucked! I told her to go out and get laid. She laughed and said no way! But obviously after a few drinks and a nice looking bloke giving her some attention, she couldn’t resist! Dirty bitch!

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I’m generally in some sort of horny state all the time due to wearing lingerie daily.Wife doesn’t wear a bra very often and has big nipples which are usually easily noticeable whether we are at home or out and about so that also fuels the fire.Couple that with a lot of horny memories in the wank bank and it doesn’t take much to get me going!

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Are you away having a cheeky tug thinking about my partner? :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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I get really turned on reading this forum … often leads to masturbation…

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Good man, thing is that’s only a little bit of it, they were making so much noise, the owner of the flat opened the door of the bathroom and caught them at it.:rofl:

They ended up going round to his bed sit, guy had pretty decent stamina, fucked her for a good four hours before sending her cum filled cunt home.

Oh we’ve been up to all sorts!

What is it that you wish your OH would do for you?

Is she up for doing your fantasy? Or does she just allow you to bring out your dirtiest desires?

No harm in asking, sometimes asking is all part of the fun.

I might be the only one but I get turned on and hard browsing through the Dildos on here and then I masturbate

Used to be thinking of my wife & her masturbating while she was in her black stockings, but it’s been nearly a year now of no affection or sexual contact​:pensive:

So it’s porn these days!