We send dirty text from work etc all-day. Sometimes it’s a back rub. Sometimes I just ask. Need some new ways to initiate.
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I often receive a message from the bedroom saying something has come up here, do you mind giving me a hand 
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Love it! Gonna use that one next time. 
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With my new gf? A kiss. That gets me hard immediately…she’s the best kisser ever…
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I just gently grab hold of him and tell him what I want him to do to me or what I want to do to him 
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I’m usually select with my words.
“We need to sort dinner soon, unless you’d think of something else you’d rather eat?”
“I need to sort something in the bedroom, come help me if you like.”
“I know what I’d rather do”
and so on
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I don’t.
She has ‘Free Use’ of me so I cannot refuse anything she suggests.
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Often it can be a suggestive (or sometimes very graphic!) text message earlier in the day so the excitement builds over longer.
If we’re going for some splosh-sex it can something much more spontaneous like a pie or cake to the face or plopping some custard or similar in to the other party’s underwear. Another splosh favourite is to blindfold OH then unwittingly force her to do a cake-sit 
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I generally find that a nice, hot relaxing bubble bath together works well and gets the wife in the mood. Other than that, she likes relaxing tickles…
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We openly ask - fancy sex. -leads to sex most of the time
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‘I want to suck your dick / eat you out’. Doesn’t matter how you say it: text, in person, over email, carrier pigeon, a letter, get a friend to tell them on your behalf…
Done. You’re welcome.
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One other thing to add to my list: Saturday morning I just started masturbating in front of hubby and told him he could stay and help or leave me to it. That was very effective.
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That’s an effective way to do it! Loved it
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So glad you added the ‘on your behalf’ part.
Prod her until she gives in.
To be clear it’s on my behalf and no on their behalf. Specificity is important.
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Absolutely, hence I said. Good communication is important, even more so when communicating via third parties.
Like an hour ago I said how do you fancy trying that cream out tonight. Guess what we are doing later 
If I want it, I just start stroking him and work my way down. If there’s a bulge, when I get there, I know I’m doing the right thing. He pretty much does the same, unless we haven’t got much time, then one of us will just ask “Wanna fuck?”. We don’t beat around the bush. 
I make innuendo jokes and he gets the message I’m horny. I have been known to leave toys out as well as a not so subtle hint.
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