I edge all the time. I do it so that when we have sex I cum like a crazy man. I have also changed how I do is to that it is “less” stimulating - instead of a full on fist grab - I am much more gentile so there is more stimulation during PIV sex.
I don’t go out of my way to edge but sometimes I just dip into and out of different places where I post either my thoughts such as here and look at the feedback or in my accounts like Fetlife where I see the comments on my NSFW pic posts and those start turning me on and then I might pop some lingerie on and take some pics and share them with my Telegram or Discord buddies and start inviting people to cam with me by then I’ve probably not touched my cock but I’m sometimes still completely soft or I might fully hard but either way I’m so aroused could probably cum in seconds if I started to masturbate so when I do cam it’s mostly showing off to the other guys and talking dirty and possibly watching them cum then joining another call and by then I’ve been fully aroused for maybe an hour and then I’m at my limit as soon as I start touching myself I will be ready to cum so if you think of it I guess it’s hands free edging ![]()
2hrs is my record at the moment, before I need the release anything past that hasn’t happened so far.
The longest session I’ve done was over the course of 2 days. In a semi fixed pattern it went: nips, stroke, rim. Went a little closer each time with each type.
At the end after poking my rear fun button instead of rimming, was giant mess in my panties (surprisingly a lot given post hrt… it’s usually a cute dribble).
The longest I’ll usually go though is about a day. Some play before work, during lunch, at the end of work, then finish like an hour before going to bed.
Wow how do you last that long! If I start edging in a morning I can only last till the end of the day. If I do it too much my vulva just ends up constantly aching and dribbling in my pants and my pubic hair just gets too messy then so I have to finish it off.
A week?! Good on you @WaveyAlien the most I’ve done is 3 or 4 days. Totally love edging, it’s amazing
I sometimes do it when masturbating. Never really go all that long cause I give in to the feeling to easily
but definitely worth it to go as long as possible if you have the willpower the orgasm is so much more explosive
I’ve definitely done a ton of edging, and kind of have three ways to do it.
The first way is the easiest and for people who have poor self control. Try to stop and resume extremely early, and far before orgasm. The first times you stop it might not feel like much, but usually after a few times, when you resume it feels pleasurable and good. After you get the first burst of pleasure from stroking just stop for a short bit before resuming again.
The second way is high intensity edging, where you stop right before orgasm. Guys might get the anxiety or rising feeling and you’ll feel your prostate twitching after you stop. I think this is the way most people do it, but it can be extremely tough to stop and leaves you with a bit anxious. Most people call this stopping at the Point of No Return, but it’s not entirely accurate.
The third way is tough and takes a lot of self control and practice. You can kind of use momentum to ‘roll’ a bit past the Point of No Return (while no longer touching), which will let you ejaculate but not orgasm and stay excited. Ejaculating itself is fun even when you don’t orgasm. This has the bonus of removing some of the anxiety from being horny, but there an extreme bit of anxiety during the no touch ejaculation part, that some people may need to get used to at first (it’s very difficult not to resume immediately). This essentially turns your edging sessions into ejaculate over and over sessions, which is extremely pleasurable at the cost of a lot more cleanup/tissues.
Had a great time edging yesterday as I ended up working from home for the afternoon due to construction in my office.
Decided that to motivate myself toward productivity every time I completed a task of my work to-do list I would masturbate to the edge, then move on to the next task. I also included some dry pumping with my Bathmate, sometimes before the edge, sometimes after, and sometimes both.
I had about 12 items on the list and spent about 2 hours working through them, edging between each. I really had every intent of not cumming, but I ended up “rolling” as you described at the very end, just rocking back and forth in my seat, no hands, after the last one and ended up cumming against my will. I’m not sure if I’d describe it as you as an ejaculation without orgasm, maybe more like a spoiled orgasm. My ejaculate was much milkier rather than normally thick, and it was definitely an intense sensation, but not explosive like it normally is while masturbating.
I really had every intent of not cumming, but I ended up “rolling” as you described at the very end, just rocking back and forth in my seat, no hands, after the last one and ended up cumming against my will. I’m not sure if I’d describe it as you as an ejaculation without orgasm, maybe more like a spoiled orgasm.
You’ll know if you did it correctly if you remain hard and didn’t trigger the refractory period, and you ejaculated without orgasm.
The momentum and rolling is hard to describe, but it’s not literally you rolling. Basically you need to completely stop touching at a certain point, so you need to give your pleasure enough momentum to like roll past the point of no return, while not touching. Sometimes this involves stroking fast and letting go early right before the point of no return, but it’s extremely difficult.
You might get the intense feeling (like anxiety) like you messed up and you should continue stroking, but hold back and completely no touching until the sensation and ejaculation ends. If you did it correctly, you’ll feel the contractions of the ejaculation and cum spurting out more than you normally do (since you’re not orgasming) and you’ll remain excited and hard.
Sorry if I had explained it poorly before.
Ok, I’ve definitely experienced what you describe here, too, I just never thought of it as such. In my experience it’s a sudden spurt, followed by a short stream for a few seconds - it’s cloudy and runnier than precum, but not claggy like a full cum. I’m pretty sure I have also experienced this during sex when I try to pause so as to not cum too soon but still feel that spurt and release but keep my erection and am able to continue. Of course mid-sex I’ve never pulled out to check the consistency. Had an occurrence of this the other afternoon while I was edging about halfway through my session, separate from the accidental full cummy orgasm at the end.
It’s a bit confusing since ejaculations themselves seem to vary. The liquid squirt that sometimes precedes the normal ejaculation, is a normal thing that happens for some people.
How much comes out when you do the ejaculation-only-trick, seems to vary, on the timing, how full your prostate is, and if you’re with a partner. If you do the timing too late, you’ll get more coming out, but might lose interest slightly (partial refractory period).
It’s hard to describe, but you can kind of feel how full your prostate is as you’re edging and between releases. I don’t usually go straight for ejaculation over and over. I usually edge/stroke a bit, until my prostate feels more full and then go do the trick.
If you’re only getting a little squirt or a dibble, you need to adjust the timing, increase the intensity, or let the prostate fill up a bit more.
Tried plenty of times on my own but never had someone else doing it to me. Definitely will have to request it for tonight’s massage ![]()
I have gone a few days before and whilst the orgasm was incredible I don’t think I have that much will power to do it on a regular basis
, normally I’ll edge for anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 hours depending, as to hold back the orgasm I often find just letting go and allowing it to simmer down for a few seconds before getting back to it
I was so sure I had replied to this topic probably because there is alot of them, being single now means edging time is alot longer as I have no partner to tip me over the edge with a just her scent or with a sexy look or words…
So for me it can be days to weeks to a month or so, I have always liked staying hornier for longer so edging has always been appealing to me. I like that feeling of being on the horny edge where anything can get you excited and it happens fast
even with a partner I like feeling hornier for longer it would make our sessions longer and better ![]()