We’ve been training my ass for about 10 years now. It started with a with a medium sized plug. That was bought with the intension to use on my wife but was used on me. We bought bigger toys over time and my wife kept adding more fingers each time we played with my ass, until she had her whole hand wrist deep in my ass. Because I love being stretched and completely full, I just kept on slowly stretching my ass.
Now I can insert a 10.25” circumference buttplug and my wife can double fist me. I definitely agree that you need to do it regularly so as to keep up progress.
Momentarily we working on getting deeper to be pegged with a huge dildo balls deep. She looks incredibly sexy with a nice ans huge strapon, She gets really carried away by pounding my ass hard.
When my OH decided she was going to try anal sex she and spent 3 months stretching first before we tried, she used a variety of gradually larger plugs and dildo’s, she would wear plugs for hours so she was comfortable with something in her bum and she stretched to a size that was bigger than my cock so she knew she could take me hopefully easier, which Im glad to say she did, after around 10 years of an active anal sexlife she can now, with plenty of lube, take me with no pre-stretching.
From my own experience I had an active sexlife when I was first experimenting with my sexuality, plenty of female and male sex, the first gay sex I had I quite naively went straight in to it with no practice and very little in the way of lube, I can remember it not be pleasurable and very uncomfortable the next day, fortunately it didn’t put me off gay sex and I learnt to take it slowly and use lube.
Now I’m a happily married Bi man and I still love anal play, I do more large toy stretching now but its still the same recipe, plenty of patience and lots of lube.
I agree with all points raised - you need to stretch your anus otherwise you will bleed and it will be very painful
I can tell you my first anal I was 19 and he was long and thin - but it hurt so much I was crying with pain - he stopped and the next day started to use dildos and butt plugs - within a month he was able to enter me and after 3 months it was very pleasant for the 2 of us
All these replies do give me hope now because I thought I wasn’t making progress, my butthole is getting more elastic ( and it does bring me joy because I am going to stop at a certain width and not extreme I just want a little more ) Im trying all day to get my large glass plug in.
Thank you all for the advice and opinons Ive been so busy im gonna get back to you all, so sweet and lovely souls and kinky just like me mwauh <3
Communication is key, bring it up. One thing you learn is people will do all kinds of things if they feel unsatsifed, or they want something and are embarassed to ask… do it inquire its better than leaving the topic alone. Always communicate your wants and needs. That way they are satisfied and you are the only woman for him <3 good luck babes
Anal was hard for me at first too, I started enjoying the feeling a lot with plugs, the deep feeling even after some time still getting use too but my butt is elastic(er) not in a bad way in a reasonable hot way that I can warm up with my largest plug and it doesn’t hurt anymore he he <3
My first experience I needed to do it by myself with a small silicone plug because I was scared too honey buns, I remember the intense pain when it popped in and I wanted to take it out so bad, I decided to wait about 45 seconds.
It shifted away and I got great feelings and then I said okay with a little more time I can do full penetration with my partner, I am glad I started and tried it, because now I love it.
For men it must feel even better for the prostate ! but yeah it just sucks because it effects your appetite you need a routine, clean yourself etc etc
@Penelope25
Glad you like my post.
The only advice I can give you is to go slow and use loads of lube. The stretch may feel a bit uncomfortable but it should never hurt, that means you’re going too fast. Train your ass multiple times a week but also give it a bitnof rest in between
We have been having anal and pegging for over seven years.
Started with me seeing anal porn and said to my husband that we should try it. LH butt plugs of various sizes and anal lube was purchased and we started practicing. Difficult to relax at first but soon started to go up in size with the butt plugs. Having PIV with a butt plug in was fun and helped me relax. Then came the day he popped my anal cherry. Lots of lube and a gentle push and he was in my bum. It was an amazing feeling.
Afterwards I said that I was now going to train him so that I could give him a good pegging. He didn’t need any further encouragement and now we do each other regularly.
Ps he loves seeing me walk around the house wearing my butt plug tail
Started with anal play about 20 years ago . We bought a top shelf harness that came with a large and giant butt plug . Rookie mistake . With much lube and much work she managed to get the less big one in . It was mildly painful . We purchased a tee plug and a number of dildos . She no longer participates but my desires are still there , so it is self service . I think I have four prostrate massagers ranging from modest to pretty fat , they are OK . For me it does little for me to stretch out . Some of my smaller dildos along with my tee plug are where I always start . Interestingly enough only two things have given me prostrate orgasms , my remote egg and my largest dildo . Here is my biggest , at least until I finally pull the trigger to buy the Dragon monster that @Melody1 showed above . Lifelike Lover Ultra Realistic Suction Cup Dildo 9 Inch - Lovehoney UK As a note for taking the longer toys , it is all about prep . I always start with my trusty old tee plug to get the lube in and relax before taking larger toys . I generally do not wear butt plugs for extended amounts of time . I must confess I do desire anal play often , I would like to have the better part of a day to play with all my toys , undisturbed .
I dearly want the dragon dong dildo , but I think my wife might freak out . The thought of riding that and especially videoing it disappearing in me makes me a horny anal slut .
I understand the horniness I do, when I get that way I can get frisky and think I can take on the whole world and crazy sizes that I can’t ! LOL but yea, my partner was a little nervous to explain to me that he liked the feeling and basically I guess corrolated it with It makes me happy we should try it together I think it could make sex even better for us (it did, I can say that <3 ) so awww I wouldn’t feel like that. I didn’t look at him crazy. It’s nice when you are on the same page, maybe try something a little less freaky to acknowledge her with it and guage the waters LOL but I want the best for you
