As often as she wants, although I’m always open to increase that frequency. ![]()
The obvious answer is “Not as much as I’d like” but who can ever get enough of a good thing?
I work away in the oil and gas industry, so pretty much I have a 3 or 4 week sex hiatus every 6 weeks or so - combination of working and the constantly image and smell of being surrounded by greasey, sweaty blokes does little for my libido when offshore.
Once I’m back onshore I’m very much raring to go and just praying my FWB is available and feeling equally amorous. If not, I need fitting with ‘Danger, ready to explode’ warning signs. Thankfully, she’s normally quite accommodating.
So, all-in-all when back onshore, we normally get pegging 2 or 3 times a week….although, the first few days back I’d easily settle for 2-3 times per day or until my butt is feeling used and truly abused.
Normally, before I head back out for work, I enjoy more stretching and bigger toys simply so I can enjoy the feeling and have naughty, dreamy recollections during the tough first couple of days away from civilisation….it kinda eases the transition and is a lovely reminder of what I can look forward to again next time.
Good things come to those who wait!!!
To be honest if I had my way I’d have my wife pegging me everyday, but I suppose I’ve got to be grateful it’s a weekly occurrence. I get to the weekend and I can’t wait for our pegging session on the Monday or Tuesday, when we’re alone. I really feel for you you mate working offshore and being deprived for so long, I don’t know how I’d cope with that.
Anyone had any experiences with pegging, something we are both considering but unsure where to start!
There are quite a few topics out there already on pegging
Here’s the direct link to the last 50 topics
Hope that has some information you find useful.
@MsSubExperimenter could this be merged to one of the topics already out there?
I had a rather decent conversation about pegging.
You’re more than welcome to take a read - How often do you get pegged by the wife?
Me and the wife think it’s amazing, it helped bring us closer together. Now it’s a weekly occurrence.
If you search pegging there’s a whole lot of advice on here available.
We started by introducing anal foreplay, just fingers and rimming at first. Then we used small dildos, and then I suggested that I’d love for her to use a strap on. She found it tricky to move her hips with the flow at first as it’s a completely different way for a female to naturally move during intercourse. Now she’s a pegging Dominatrix and I love it.
Welcome @A_and_G Pegging is at the top of my 2026 wish list. I have received some anal play (butt bugs) but am keen to experience pegging
Most of the time it’s about twice a week and I get her ass the same
If you’re already experimenting with butt plugs, it’s definitely worth buying a strap on kit, and introduce it in the bedroom. Have a chat with your OH and explain that you’d love for her to give you anal with a strap on.
I love how close me and the wife are during pegging, and still feel the sensation of anal. I love the whole skin to skin contact and not just hands.
I’ve mentioned earlier about my go to pegging kit, but here’s the link again. It’s out of stock at the minute but it’s definitely worth the buy, as it comes with various size dildos to work your way upto.
Good luck with your journey.
Thanks, I have got the equipment and we have had the chat, so fingers crossed ![]()
I’m currently in the same boat to, I have bought the equipment and had a chat or two jar haven’t gotten around to it. Hopefully this year is the year ![]()
I get pegged with a 9” strapon every couple of weeks. i’d prefer to have it multiple times a week, but i’m grateful for all i can get. i have a 10” dildo arriving this week from LH and I can’t wait to try it out!
The three in that set are massive and would have put me off for life. After building up over a month or two with some LH plugs, we felt ready to try a strap on & bought this one as it has the smallest dildo included.
After a while having great fun, we did buy one the next size up, mainly because the shortness of the first one made it a bit awkward unless I was in the exact position (we both on the tubby side)
It is enough for me now and don’t really feel there is a need to progress up to the monster stuff, although I accept different people have different goals. Not sure the realistic style is quite us though !
We do it about once every month. I love it when she fingers my bum after lubing me up. It feels insane if she runs a finger down my lubed crack!
Fingers crossed @poley I had a break through this morning, great session in bed including quasi pegging - just without the harness, my OH was using 6in dildo on me and massaging my cock at the same time. Was so
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it. Session ended in cowgirl to mouth for cum clean up ![]()
About twice a week and OH plays about with different size dildos so I never really know what’s going on my ass