product.cfm?p=4463 . I get great pleasure out of prostate massage my OH is very skilled at it. She will use a gloved finger or this prostate massager. Its not gay , she likes the control over me. It is akin to the female Gspot and with practice my OH has got me to leak a lot of precum without penial stimulation over time you can have almost an orgasm with out actually comming. It takes time alot of lube and communication. your finger needs to go in beyond the second knuckle and just like your Gspot its a small bump up towards the gap beween the ass and the base of the penis inside. Go slow and talk to your man it can be very sensitive
He will know when you are on it as you get a shot of pleasure right through his penis, I even get this feeling in my belly button. Talk to him and see what motion he likes. For me the just like a gentle but firm rub on your gspot, with the massager Just get the head to sit on the prostate and vibrate.
Best position is me kneeling in front of my OH this gives the best access also you can rub the outside of the same spot and very gently trap it inbetween. My OH says she can feel the viberater through the wall. The other plus with this if you are getting it right you can see the clear precum running out. My OH loves this and this whats known as PROSTATE MILKING and it is exqusite. Then you can allso pull the penis and make him come normally at the same time, you will get more full come than normal. Good luck enjoy, if you have any other ?s I will look out for them on this thread.