OH and I have a very infrequent sex life but Xmas and me going out to buy her some very sheer bra, panties and suspenders has re kicked my libido into life and I find myself wanting sex a lot with her rather than taking relief in masturbation.
Part of this is that I really want to get her looking at LH at toys for her and me. I'm also interested in exploring a bit of light tying up for the both of us but we only ever seem to talk dirty or fantasy when we are having sex never on a day-to-day basis (we just seem to get ... Embarrassed and move on). Even when it is mentioned (breathlessly) during sex, it is often forgotten afterwards and not acted on.
also, how do I introduce LH without her thinking I've been perving when really it's for the by both of us?
Any pointers gratefully received