HappilyExperimenting wrote:
Thank you for the advice mysteron, that sounds like a brill idea! I have news!! He produced a cock ring during our last session, and said "I've been on your lovehoney site and I found one of these whilst browsing - fancy using it today? It'll help me be harder for longer."
I was surprised but happy and thanked him for thinking of me, I said something along the lines of that I'm happy without him using it but let's give it a try, it may help both of us. We didn't use any lube (I must remember to bring that up one time!) but we did use the ring and it helped a little, mostly it boosted his esteem I think cause he felt harder, and maybe bigger too? Anyway he lasted a bit longer than usual and I masturbated myself during sex which he found incredibly hot, and he came pretty hard :) I think we've taken a good leap in our relationship considering we can now talk about sex and sex toys openly. My sex cheques from LH are being well received too, he's cashed two of four already! Thanks all for your advice!
Ive just read your post, congratulations :)