I enjoy anal toys mainly for the purpose of stretching, which means that I like toys that are very wide whether or not they are long. I am currently using the 3 bangs mega dildo http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2481 and I can comfortably get the first bang in but I can't seem to get the second even though I am pretty close. I was wondering what the best way to "train" yourself is. For example for the people that use the biggest toys possible, how do they get to that point? I was wondering if wearing a butt plug for an extended period of time (wearing it around during the day) is a good way to do this, or if the stretching from that would just go away after the day anyway? If this is a good way to train, could anybody recommend a good butt plug that is comfortable to wear around, would stay in easily, and is preferably on the bigger end (but not too big to be uncomfortable)? Also are there any good butt plugs that are quite wide but short in length? Thanks.
Your sphincter is always going to go back to normal, always always, because that's its purpose! You're never going to permanently "stretch" your ass literally. It's all about practice and getting used to the sensation. Wearing a butt plug for a while and gradually moving up to larger sized toys all in one session is the most likely way I can think of to take more -- I tend to have to warm up with one or two toys before I can have anal with my boyfriend, for example.
Yeah, I thought of that, but I wanted to ask to make sure. I am guessing then that if somebody is using a really big toy, that they had worked their way up and spent a while getting to that point all in one session. So each time is like starting over. When I use the 3 bangs dildo I have gotten more comfortable with the first bang and I guess I will eventually get the second one, it is just giving me a hard time.
A lot of it is relaxation. You'll be able to take a lot more when you're feeling calm and comfortable than if you're stressed, so a combination of relaxation and stretching is probably your best bet.
Good luck!
I may still want to get a butt plug to wear around for enjoyment. This plug seems nice because it is wide but not too long. Would it be good or is it too big to be comfortable or to stay in for a long period? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21990
someperson wrote:
I may still want to get a butt plug to wear around for enjoyment. This plug seems nice because it is wide but not too long. Would it be good or is it too big to be comfortable or to stay in for a long period? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21990
My personal opinion - it looks huge!!!! Regarding the ass training - what is your goal?
My current goal is to get all 3 bangs of this in http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2481 (I believe the widest one is 4 inches), but in general I don't have a specific goal, just to go as big as I can. I also have this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25463 and that can inflate to 5 inches or so.
someperson wrote:
My current goal is to get all 3 bangs of this in http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2481 (I believe the widest one is 4 inches), but in general I don't have a specific goal, just to go as big as I can. I also have this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25463 and that can inflate to 5 inches or so.
I can only manage this fella half way!!!
I have already written a review on this toy. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15187
But I have to say its amazing!! I absolutely love this toy. I never thought I could go this big until I bought this, it's an excellent trainer