I can't female ejaculate

Hi, I'm new to this forum.

I can female ejaculate on my own (takes me a while) but whenever I think I'm close with a guy it goes away. Any tips or advice?

This is quite common and there could be a number of reasons for it.

It could be that you're thinking about it too much when you're with a guy and because of that you're pysching yourself out? Try and relax a little bit.

Also have you shown him what you like to do when you're alone? Maybe with a little bit more guidence he may be able to get you there.

If you've not already you could try introducing some toys during sex, clitoral vibrators or the like as this could help.

Good luck.

Thank you :) my head does tend to get in the way when it isn't meant to.

iv tried asking in a round about way if I could use my bullet but he is adamant he wants it to happen doing it on his own.

Maybe warm yourself up a little before you have time together these toys are fab http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/

The come 'hether movement' tends to work for some when his fingers

Also so great hints and tips on this LH guide - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2007/09/06/female-ejaculation-how-to-squirt/

Thank you I'll check them out now