Just the thought of seeing my next door neighbours naked might put me off sex for good. Just no, eurgh, no, shudder, NO. 
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One of my neighbours answered the door to me in his underpants and another in his loosely tied dressing gown he had nothing on underneath and i had to keep my eyes up he was very hairy is all I can say and no neither were hot or sexy just randy old blokes. 
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He obviously isn’t that bothered about being seen if it was that clear what he was doing. He probably liked the woman next door having a peak! I wouldn’t mention it until it happens again though just incase he now regrets his bout of exhibitionism. I have walked in my bedroom after a shower with the curtains wide open and the lady at the back has carers in to put her to bed etc, unintentionally gave one of them an eyeful then quickly closed the curtains. Being seen/heard or seeing/hearing someone else is a turn on for me, not for my OH I don’t think. Will look forward to the update @Brattysub
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Often the only chance I get for some self love is when the wife and kids are in bed. I lay back in the sofa and let the moment take me. I turn the lights off but we share a communal drive and neighbours often walk past the window. I think it’s a turn on wondering if anyone has got a glimpse of my 7 Inches in hand!
On a separate note I often strip naked in the kitchen where the washing basket lives and walk to the bathroom. The window looks out onto the road and as I turned, a hot female older neighbour slowed down to turn into the drive. I’m pretty sure she had a peek at my bum as she did. Haven’t seen her since, be interesting to see if she’s smiley next time
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It must be a thing when taking out the rubbish as IV caught my neighbours butt naked in the garage 
then at another house I lived at our neighbours were always naked in general.
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Haha!! Sounds a delight 
As hilarious as the situation is, gotta kinda feel for the neighbour. exhibitionist or not because they have a forum talking about them.
Though, I’d say that’s part of living; theres always a risk of seeing/hearing, or being seen/heard. Be it masturbation or while engaged in coitus.
@brattysub hello and welcome (kind of) to the club. I also have a neighbour who seems a bit hot on me, he’s fractionally younger (I’m 37 next week, he’s 34) and single, despite his claims of being in a throuple with two red-blooded women. How do I know he’s faking it? I’ve never seen either of them on the security camera or hear them moving or laughing, despite his constant insistances that they go out places, and that they are both upstairs together. Also his daughter - who dotes on my husband and me - has never mentioned them, despite them being supposedly close.
I’ve never caught him masturbating before, but then it would be kind of hard anyway - we live on the ground floor and he lives above us. He also claims to have really freaky sex with both of his “lucky” ladies - we literally don’t care; we have a pretty good sex life ourselves.
But this is where it gets fun: sometimes my husband makes me be intentionally loud, you know, because we know the neighbour will probably hear us. A few weeks ago I had an intentionally loud orgasm after one of his fantasy-sex bragging sessions - at least he now knows what a real woman sounds like when she comes 
We did get close at one time and have always been close, but when he started lying to me and manipulating me instead of owning the fact that ethical non-monogamy can be tricky - that he can’t replace my husband or control us, he has to accept him and our relationship if it is to work - that attraction quickly went away. As I say, he still tries to make me envious, but I’m not the one who is.
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My wife and I have had sex in front of many of our windows at night without a care if anyone sees us as what goes on inside your own home is fun and if anyone sees you it’s just another turn on. We’ve never thought of swinging as we always enjoy each other so much and get fulfillment from making each other feel so good and have done since we were VERY young teens after meeting in secondary school. As long as your OH feels as you do to have some fun with other people be they single or a couple then more power to the both of you and just remember to have fun and share as many orgasms as possible 
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Where we used to live years ago we would sometimes have sex in the living room, which was at the front of the house and the garden was not fenced as was all the gardens there. We always made sure the curtains were closed as there were a lot of children living In the area. There was one little girl who was particularly fond of a white cat we had and would often look in the window to see if he was around. Where we are now it is not an issue they would have to be out there with binoculars
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@Scottishfunk Sounds similar to me in taking whatever chance you can to get naked
Love walking about in the nip when I can 
Do you know the neighbour well that saw your cheeks
If I had the right kind of neighbour I’d be all over that kinda thing for the thrill of being seen 8
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I don’t know her well but she’s nice enough and always says hello. She’s older than me, a mother of two college age girls. She’s also really fit, often out running. Her husband works abroad. She’s really affair material
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@Scottishfunk well if there’s a sweet ass and a 7 incher not getting it’s desired attention at home (except from yourself of course ) who knows what might happen if she did see it (and like what she saw 
) when driving past
No judgement here buddy
Maybe you should take up running?
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I’m not that guy fortunately or unfortunately depending how you look at it. Got to set an example to my children. And I’m terrible at talking to women anyway.
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You have to ask yourself would you want your children to stay in a relationship without physical affection?
It’s hard…I’ve been there myself.
Hugs
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I go back and forth with my thoughts trust me. We are stuck in a real rut. Our house uf up for sale and getting little to no interest. We can’t look until ours is under consideration. Our daughter, who is 3 in December is in our room because we have nowhere to put her, limiting where we can have sex (my wife is a bed only type woman). My son is 8 next weekend, and we haven’t had a single night away from kids since he was born
@Scottishfunk I hear you, brother. I had a highly evolved sense of loyalty when it came to relationships and marriage, and it took me way too long (i.e. virtual bankruptcy and her infidelity) to overcome it and make the break from a very toxic marriage.
Now, I’m in the perfect relationship with my new wife and my kids are happier than ever. I’m not saying your experience will pan out like mine did, BUT if you’re unhappy, then it’s not right and you need to address it. You deserve happiness as much as anybody else.
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Well, if he’s good looking that might be really hot. But to be honest, when I see most of the neighbors around me… I’d rather NEVER see them undressed lol
Being that he changed tempo, once he spotted you looking and didn’t abruptly stop to cover up, he wanted to be seen. I have done the same thing but I was in my backyard, when I allowed my neighbor wife catch me walking.