@198269 There’s lots of good advice and info around squirting in the forums, worth having a search through some threads. It is something that is very individual for each person, and good comms with your girlfriends is the best starting point as only she knows what she is feeling, especially if she gets the talked about sensation of needing to pee.
Some ladies will hold back and prevent it from happening if not fully relaxed and may feel self conscious. There are also tell tale signs for me, can feel girlfriend swelling inside with the ‘come hither’ motion, then hear a squelch slike sound and finally it will happen. My GF can be take or leave squirting, it is a different sensation but she finds other orgasms more intense, so as much as it turns me on when it happens I try to focus more on her enjoyment and take it as a bonus when it does happen.
For my OH it takes plenty of clit stimulation first for build up, and then g-spot for her to actually squirt. Her preferred choice is tongue for clit, fingers for g-spot. Up until the last week not found any toy that would give her a ‘wet orgasm’ as we call it, and she has never achieved it through solo play.
It can sound simple, but there are lots of other factors. Setting your goal to making your girlfriend squirt might not help, instead focus on her relaxing and simply enjoying the journey.
Having that end target might put pressure on your girlfriend too, which could make the end goal more difficult.
I did it for the first time yesterday too, and like you thought it would never happen, but it did and it was amazing.
After the first time, I did it again and again, by the time I’d finished the towel I’d folded over twice was soaked, as was the bed underneath! Thank god for waterproof sheets haha
Tried it yesterday on my beautiful work but no luck.
Did exactly what is instructed used two fjngers with the come here motion. I think I am in the right area. She feels like she needs go to to the bathroom. She is relaxed, enjoys it but so far no squirt. Not expecting fireworks everywhere but something. Not putting pressure on her either.
She did have a really good O but no squirt.
Will keep trying, any other suggestions would be much appreciated! I dont think she would like one of the steel toys unfortunately.
Thanks!
Will keep you all updated, sorry to jump on your post!
Sounds like almost there.
Would suggest continuing with the G-Spot action through and post orgasm (avoiding clit though due to sensitivity at that moment), and might need to be a little firmer than you think (can feel a little aggressive). Shortly after she gets the peeing sensation there’ll be a change of sound to what I’d describe as a squelch and as long as you carry on it will happen.
It’s hard to put into words, but would expect plenty of guides you can watch on it.
Tried again, same result. Nothing. When i pulled my fingers out there was a very nice substance though left on me.
My method was:
Get her aroused.
Slip 2 fingers in with come here motion on g spot
She started to feel as if she needed the bathroom
Then she had a big O but no squirt.
It isnt the end of the world as she still really enjoyed it though.
So i tried again to try and make her squirt but still nothing. I have said from the very beginning there is no pressure on her at all and to just relax. The thing that I did say is to push out when she is going for the big O, maybe I should say to her to just relax instead?
What I did was the following and happy to ger any advice or any mistakes I made!
Got her in the mood kissing neck rubbing nips etc. When she is in the mood, a little clit massage
Once arouaed, I slowly slipped two fingers in her, doing a very slow come here motion with both fingers bringing my fingers from around the back to the front hitting the top spongy bit.
At this point she said she felt like she needed to go to the toilet, so assume I am in the right area?!
The motion gets quicker as she got wetter and can feel her getting tighter.
Big O, she said it felt good, lots on my hands, not no squirt or anything.
She had a good time which is the main thing, and she Is happy to let me know what fesls good and what doesn’t.
The first time my OH squirted was with a Desire metal beaded toy. She felt embarrassed when it first happened, however I reassured her that it was an amazing thing to be able to do.
Now my OH squirts nearly every time during sex. and I tell her that I wear it as a badge of honor that I helped create the waterfall.
I am currently looking for a decent “squirt blanket” for the bed as there is just too much volume for towels to soak up.
She has accepted that this is the “new norm” during sex when she Orgasms and is no longer bothered or embarrassed by it.
For me it feels different to an orgasm, but just as pleasurable! I can tell when it’s about to happen as I feel as if I need to pee then get like a build up wave inside me. If I just relax at that point, the juices are soon flowing, we’ll more than flowing! I’ve only done it with my current partner, and it’s an amazing feeling, for both of us. I’ve never squirted through PIV, but with toys and fingers, regularly now!
HALLELUJAH!! After years of my partner being able to make me squirt, I was on a mission to be able to make myself do it - independent woman and all .
So, my mission began a few months ago. Having only ever bought clitoral vibes from LH, I finally braved it and bought myself the G5 Tiger and 7" black silicone vibrating dildo, two absolute beauties and OMFG, how did I survive so long without them!?
I was finally able to make myself squirt much to mine and my partner’s enjoyment. Since then, I have bought nearly every glass dildo LH has to offer . My personal favourites being the LH purple sensyal beaded glass dildo and Icicles number 5 swirl.
There is something surprisingly liberating about being able to give myself that much pleasure - anyone else agree?
Any hints or tips with the come here technique with two fingers? Woulf absolutely love to make the other half squirt. I get as far as her feeling the need for the toilet but nothing as yet!
Very difficult to answer those questions, everyone is individual, and not all ladies are able to squirt, so it’s very subjective and ultimately you and your partner will know a lot more as to what’s going on and what works.
However, based on mine and OH’s experience, things I would suggest are:
Maybe focus on clit for longer, take your time, let her relax and really enjoy herself. My goal is always to focus on her pleasure, if squirting happens then massive bonus.
Maybe you have it already?
My experience with OH is not like you would often see in porn with streams flying everywhere. There is a lot more fluid, big wet patches, but isn’t projectile.
The other thing to consider, is some ladies squirt from internal play, others from clit only.
For my OH, happens with lots of clit teasing and pleasing first, some times with O’s on the way, and then come hither. Only way she squirts will be from fingers with come hither - but your lady could be very different to mine.
Only your lady can tell you that my friend. I remember you saying previously she has squirted once before - if she has had that experience, then she really will be your best guide to finding the promised land you’re eager to discover!
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. My personal favourites being the LH purple sensyal beaded glass dildo and Icicles number 5 swirl.
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