@Brian_Lisa yes those comments on naked attraction always amaze me there was one episode when the guys saying how neat a vulva the one woman has and moves onto the one with clearly visible inner labia and says something like it looking like a burger sticking out of a bun it was so derogatory as everyone is different and every pussy is beautiful
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I have an outie now Iām older. I hate it but H loves it
Everyone tells you about boobs drooping when you get older but not that pussies do too 
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@ApolloSwallow pussys are just gorgeous no matter how much you may worry
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Totally agree,no preference Ive enjoyed,both.As rockstar describes,its all about the person not the pussy.
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I canāt say i have a preference, but my wife of 30 years has an outie
She loves it when i suck on her lips
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Currently struggling with this change and going to war with myself over how it looks 
I think not helped by the porn world only offering young models for view, even amateur I struggle to find anyone relatable! Husband not bothered in the slightest, its just myself.
@CurvyCandy2 all womens body parts are different just embrace what you have I have a really bignout lips and i often see women stare at me when i am.in the changing room at my gym but then i look at women who you cant see anything so as i said we are all differen
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@CurvyCandy2 porn gives a very unrealistic image of both felmale and male bodies. Please donāt compare this to your own body. Sounds like your parter really loves you as you are. My wife is plus size and I think every part of her body is amazing and I am so luckly to be with her. She has a large upper pubic area which is amazing.
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@CurvyCandy2 mainstream porn is so much focussed on the āneat and tidyā types of innie vulvas and typically shaved too
Every woman is different my wifeās gone through this phase at menopause I think possibly contributed to her lack of interest in oral sex
No matter how people look or what they feel like theyāre all different and all gorgeous in their own way
If you want reassurance that you arenāt so different from others then thereās a couple of websites where they have done photo surveys of womenās differing labia shapes and sizes
I used to have a video many years back (for educational purposes only you understand lol) of a woman who did sex education, masturbation and self examination kinda workshops with women and that showed them intimately exploring their outer and inner labia and vaginas in mirrors as the woman coached them and explained their anatomy and how they were different to one another either that or something similar are possibly available on line
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Iām in peri menopause so things are difficult at times with hormones, i think the lack of hormones has changed the look or could be also age, I havenāt started HRT or anything as I wanted natural remedies but I also wont rule it out.
I used to think nothing of snapping a pic and sending it to my husband, last time i went to do that, I honestly looked and thought, wow girl you have changed, aged, gotten wrinkly down there 
and it completely threw me and put me off.
Think thats when porn or pictures or sites come in, everyone is so pink and plump whether inny or outty but equally I know not everyone is the same.
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I will definitely check those out, that would be reassuring, and good to know you have experienced this with your wife, as its maybe more common than I realise, all the change 
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@CurvyCandy2 sorry to hear about your struggles with your body changes
Maybe he just didnāt think about what he was saying it does seem insensitive
My wifeās early 60ās and sure she has wrinkles on her body and pussy but thatās life
Sheās in HRT and her libido is pretty good but body positivity is I guess a little bit low
The HRT definitely improved our sex life no end she was suffering from vaginal dryness and thatās completely the opposite now and I donāt know if itās related directly to the HRT or just being more relaxed about sex but her clits way more erect now than ever before and she has more frequent and it seemes stronger climaxes
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Given a choice between āinnieā and āoutieā pussies, my preference will always be āpermission to access.ā 
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@CurvyCandy2 as far as the vulva galleries are concerned Iām pretty sure I watched a video about how and why took the photos and how the different women were about their own body images
I definitely think that my wifeās experience is similar to yours and elsewhere I mentioned how she recently stopped trimming her pussy hair and Iām kinda now thinking about how maybe she concerned about how her outer labia looks too
Iām constantly telling her sheās always gorgeous
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We are mid 50ās and my wifeās pussy is still amazing. I would say hers is a combination of the two now but still perfect and sexy. I love the fact I can see her lips somewhat when sheās walking around naked. When having sex or watching her with her toys itās even better. She also has a larger clit when extremely turned on which I enjoy so much. 
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I canāt say Iāve got passed my feelings of dislike for the way my pussy looks since Iāve gotten older. Whenever H or I take photos where it will be on display I tuck the lips out of the way or hold my hand, a toy etc Infront.
I even looked into surgery but I just couldnāt justify the expenseā¦
What I have done is get slimmer and fitter, I look after my hair and nails so I love the rest of my body.
Weāre definitely not the only women whose bodies have changed in this way. Porn is generally a poor representation of reality so please donāt let that influence the way you feel about your body. x
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I said the same to my husband, i will work on what appearance I can change and that would help my confidence. I take really good care of my hair too, and skincare.
They definitely tell women about sagging boobs but dont mention the rest!
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Firstly let me say that I think outies are incredibly sexy. Regarding your query for online resources Iād suggest going to a popular porn tube site and search for ālong labiaā I tried a site and found over 10 pages of links so many others must love these too.
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Definitely an innie and i dont appear to have any labia inside the outer part, if i do they are very small. But everything is covered and looks neat. Although i have not had children so that maybe something to do with it.
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@user763 true a fully innnie pussy looks neat but I donāt think pussies with outtie visible inner labia are in any way less or more attractive
The whole thing about so called neatness is a very damaging concept
Iām pretty sure guys donāt actually care what a pussy looks like in my opinion theyāre all beautiful
I see so many different adverts recently for labiaplasty specialists
This in my opinion is the equivalent of the ridiculous fad for injecting the lips to make them plumper and supposedly more attractive and just makes women look terrible