Sounds like a fun relationship. Pretty similar to mine, i just thought others would think its weird to be truethful.lace21 wrote:
Both myself and the OH do this even if not at work and one of us is out. I have videoed myself for him to watch when he gets home but he usually likes me texting him whilst at work to say what I have been up to just to give him a nice thought to get through the day! The thought of him coming home and catching me is what gets me going as like to think of what he would do to me! I know the OH watches porn when he masturbates but I usually watch it with him- I like watching anal, DP, threesomes, lesbian and T girls these are also my OH's favourites as well 😉
I don't think it is wrong at all and I prefer to do my masturbating on my own. Of course I'm very happy to do it in front of him but to have a really good wank with my dildo or my vibrator I can focus much better when I have some alone time. I work from my home office and he works in the day so I usually get time to take care of myself.
If I have a day off I always take the opportunity to masturbate, and I always let her know, every now and then she gets a little tease pic, but she does the same to me, so fair to say we both love it
I love a bit of me only time ..... my partner likes it when when I send a naughty pic or three to him at work so he knows what he's coming home to. I think it's important to have that bit of time to yourself. Gone on spoil yourself !
Yes it's absolutely fine to masterbate while your partner is out. I encourage my wife to do so. We have both videotaped and sent each other pictures. I love getting wet and excited while at work.
I agree it is much naughtier to have "me time" with OH at work, I send him a sexy text something like rabbit 1 me O ! or 3mins O He comes home really horny !
Mine asks me to take pictures and videos to send to him whilst I'm doing it. I normally masturbate 3 times a day, sometimes just clitoral stimulation and then others I play with dildos and anal toys. Likewise he sends me dirty pictures. When we're both home we take turns in nipping upstairs and take pics or videos of ourselves and send them to each other. Then when we're alone at night we're both desperately horny and the sex is incredible
So it seems its not unusal for this to happen. It does of course build up something for later on at the night. Does anyone go off just what you have saved on your phone or using porn too? Both are just as fun i find
I think it's great to get new ideas from porn for new photos or videos you've seen.My wife watches porn and I watch it so what's wrong with being open and watching together. Relationships are so much better when you can be completely open and free to do what you like. It's great having a partner of similar mind too.
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I love having the house to myself for some good alone time. I like to wear something sexy and get the toys out, maybe take a few pics too
GinaGee74 wrote:
I love having the house to myself for some good alone time. I like to wear something sexy and get the toys out, maybe take a few pics too
Same, wearing something sexy is part of it for me
Most definitely. Unfortunately we have 2 young children so it isn't something that happens here but my husband loves the thought of me masturbating while he's put. Especially if I tell him I'm doing it.
Yes I do often... Usually send a few pics too 😀
I'd love for my gf to mention or text that she is playing, however she says is none of my business, it's her personal time and I should never intrude on that. Shame really, because I believe that engaging with a partner when they aren't there could be very empowering for a woman. Knowing that she is driving me wild at work whilst she fulfils her desires
I love the thought of going around a customers house, and the lady of the house sneaking off upstairs whilst we are working, only for us to need to discuss something with her. Me walking around the house trying to find her, and catching her with head phones in, screwing herself on her bed. Then she opens her eyes whilst I'm in the door way, and then.............well you know!!!!!!
sarah2011 wrote:
Sometimes whilst my husband is at work I have an uncontrollable urge to want to masturbate. He has told me in the past that he likes to do this too. Would anyone ever video or take pictures to send to your partner whilst they are working?
We have done this many many many times
Jr251271 wrote:
I love to masterbate whilst he is at work, then text him to tell him not to be late! As for pics and video, whilst the urge to send it is there, i restrain, dont want it getting in the wrong hands, but happy to share when he gets in.
The above, for sure!
I do it, hope she does *often* as it is healthy activity!
Often he tells me to go and have some "me time" and he likes to get texts on my progress, it lightens his day
Total opposite, it's awesome. Whether you're doing it for you alone, or to show off to your partner, it's never a bad thing. (In fact, one might argue that in the middle of a business meeting is the BEST time to tease the crud out of him, etc.).
I don't think there's an issue with it, I'm sure most people do it.
I found out recently my partner does it, even if I'm in the house. If I'm busy working sometimes she will, I told her that she doesn't need to be secret about it. If I'm aware she's doing it it turns me on so much. If she wants the alone time to do it I'm fine with that but if I knew she was doing it then afterwards we'd be having sex.
I love to see her masturbate