Is one better than the other

A few comments and posts got me thinking…. Obviously I know it’s going to vary from person to person. I’m just curious what others have to say about orgasm from oral :tongue:versus a vibrator on the clit. Does one way feel better or do more for you than the other? I’m still learning myself.

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I just asked this Lea this, and her response was an enthusiastic definitely being gone down on :+1:

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I am yet to orgasm through oral with hubby so my vote would be the vibrator on the clit or better still a clit sucker.

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For me, a vibrator is more direct and will get me to an explosive O quicker. Oral takes longer so I can enjoy the build up more. Also, I can get the vibrator experience any time (I mean by my self) whereas oral is a unique experience and feeling I can only get with another person.

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Oral for me is no 1 …. No comparison…

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Is it easier to orgasm or just feels better?

It’s easier with a vibrator.
But I love someone working on me to make me cum with their tongue. It is so relaxing, and I just love it. I could have someone there 24/7.

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Ohhhhhhh that’s an interesting debate! Personally, the orgasm is more intense from oral compared to a wand, however it’s far quicker/quicker multiples with a wand. I’d have to say oral is the preference, the build up is more enjoyable, and afterwards there’s the fun of cleaning his face off too!

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Mrs W here …

Oh yes, no comparison … the best is somebody going down on me, so persanal, so lovely … depending on many things, its not always just oral though, often a finger or two is involved as well … yes the wand is a substitute and brings me off, but I love oral, both Mr W and Pen are superb at giving it … xx

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So Mrs W prefers me giving her oral stimulation over clit vibes or suckers. Don’t get me wrong she loves the toys and they make her achieve squirting orgasms, however she says they make her cum way too quickly as she likes the slow build up to the climax. She thinks toys make her way too sensitive, this doesn’t mean that she doesn’t enjoy toys though, because she really does love them.

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When hubby goes down on me the orgasm is a more intense built up, as the things he can do with that tongue
He doesn’t just focus on my clitoris to stimulate me to orgasm
Unlike a vibrator/bullet directly stimulating just one spot which i fibd is very sensitive
I enjoy both but to answer your question I would definitely oral

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The orgasm is more intense with a toy but I much prefer oral. Oral will be slower though and there’s more of a chance that he’ll get tired from it. Having a mechanically induced (functional) orgasm first, increases the sensitivity for him to finish me off with his mouth and tongue. Its easier then for him to hold me in the waves of orgasm for longer. And he’s very good at that.

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@Lovemyhoney - for me it’s more intimate and loving

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Hubby can never last more more than 10-15 minutes before his neck starts aching and he gets hot and cant breath.

Pretty sure my wife would vote someone going down on her.

An oxygen supply? :rofl::rofl::rofl:.

Some women are too impatient for a 10-15 min oral session nowadays. Love the whole involvement of giving a women I love or fancy the pants off of oral

Well, to be honest, I’ve never had good oral so as long as they don’t break on me, I’m choosing my vibrators! :high_voltage::high_voltage:

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Mrs bustywife here definitely oral for me, mr always makes sure have multiple orgasms with his wonderful tongue and mouth