Hard to say really. When i first got together with my partner (long before i started shopping on Lovehoney) i could squirt then. We were aware of it but i was a bit embarrased by it in case he was freaked out. Fortunately he found it a huge turn on although he was a bit surprised.
There does seem to be alot of talk about it now online but then i spend alot of my time on a forum discussing sex and looking at reviews of sex toys whereas i didn't before and now it's only when i'm actively looking at such sites that i see anything about it mentioned, In my day to day life i don't really talk about sex with my friends so i've neverheard it mentioned in those circumstances so in that respect to me it's not an open talking point.
However there are alot of toys made for gspot stimulation, whether these are the result of people wanting to squirt or wanting gspot orgasm or both who knows.
Yeah I think that is part of it. I think a growing number of women are far more informed awhich is making them in turn less self conscience about the idea of ejaculating during sex. I find it fascinating if I'm honest how opinions are changing about it.
Incidently I think that G-spot toys and the Magic wand are more popular because they give women the option to experiment. Women don't to have to make such a mental or physical leap to squirt. My girlfriend certainly prior to having a proper squirting orgasm felt that she didn't have the ability to do it. Luckily the LH Magic wand through sheer power alone, caused one that she couldn't control!
I squirt through deep throating a guy. I have no idea why but it happens over and over again. I gush rather than squirt sometimes when I orgasm but I see that as entirely different. The squirt I can control, the gush I can't. The squirting is not an orgasm but feels nice. It's also a new thing. Less than 2 years ago it started happening. The more I drink the more I can squirt! I cannot explain it!
thanks to the internet squirting is more known about guys see it in porn and now almost expect a woman to manage it while i have squirted a few times i can't do it on demand. i was watching a program called sexcetra the other day on sky (early 00's but still quite relevant today) one of the segments on the show was about orgasms and there was no mention about squirting i'd have to guess back then it wasn't well known of or didn't have the same allure it does now
I definitely agree with this, and probably laergely due to the internet and our exposure to porn.
I remember years ago, going to an adult store in Soho and there was a seperate Anal section in their DVD bit.
I went there a few months ago and anal just seemed to be the norm in all dvd's. I guess squirting is going the same way especially as it is easy to fake it in porn (sorry to shatter the dreams of a few - but yes porn isnt all real orgasms etc). With the increased availability to porn I guess these sort of things are becoming more and more the norm.
Boundaries will always be pushed - that is simply human nature
I reckon it is heading that way. I love getting my wife to squirt.
It is the new 'water of life' to us Fremen Muad'Dib.
me and my girl have been trying to get her to squirt like in pornos for a while now. she does have huge orgasms, my finace says im the first guy to give her them(i do alot of research on the internet on positions, and were to touch and how)
i feel the top of her vaginal walls sweeling , she feels that shes filled with liquid, like he has to pee(weve tried the hand technique, and times when im having sex with her) and she says she doesnt want to pee. i told her its not the same thing, all the vids we watch it says she needs to just let it go! shes squirt a tiny bit , like a lil, but never a big gusher. any help?
I reckon it is heading that way. I love getting my wife to squirt.
It is the new 'water of life' to us Fremen Muad'Dib.
me and my girl have been trying to get her to squirt like in pornos for a while now. she does have huge orgasms, my finace says im the first guy to give her them(i do alot of research on the internet on positions, and were to touch and how)
i feel the top of her vaginal walls sweeling , she feels that shes filled with liquid, like he has to pee(weve tried the hand technique, and times when im having sex with her) and she says she doesnt want to pee. i told her its not the same thing, all the vids we watch it says she needs to just let it go! shes squirt a tiny bit , like a lil, but never a big gusher. any help?
im not paying 45 dollars for an online vid
I think my trick was to buy my girlfriend a very powerful vibrator (magic wand) enabling her to orgasm very hard without physically wanting to. The squrting was secondary as she was unable to control the multiple orgasms she was having. The wand certainly broke a mental barrier in her. She said it was like a tidal wave hitting her. She did feel the urge to pee for a split second but I think the LH magic wand did push it further on to the point of where she couldn't help but squirt.
It's one thing trying to squirt but to have one completely involuntarily was something else according to my partner.
So, here is a quandary... I squirt or gush nearly every time I orgasm. Lucky me you may think - not so lucky, the other half dislikes it. Loves that I orgasm - just not the squirt or gush. Now there is a tricky situation.
"In the http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom, the http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/British_Board_of_Film_Classification has banned films alleged to show female ejaculation, claiming that the expert medical advice it received was that there is no such thing as female ejaculation, and therefore the films deemed to show urine." from wiki http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation#Controversy.2C_debate_and_feminist_criticism
'tis rather interesting.
It's been awhile since its happened to me. Was rather annoyed the other day a lov-e-r almost got me there and then ruined it by asking me if I wanted him to keep going. Really put me off as I was in the moment focusing on the stimulation etc.
I still must grab a liberator throw at some point for moments when it's likely to happen.
I love that I can squirt and my boyfriend loves seeing me squirt which is ace , I did squirt the other night without toys which did amaze me , llots of fun indeed