My sex life with the wife is non existent these days. We have tried talking, going out having a few drinks massages nothing happens. I recently bought a stroker for me and a small vibe for her to try something different still nothing was just wondering if there was a pill to get her in the mood. The stroker is amazing for me but it does not feel as good as my wife.
Has she been to the doctor to rule out any medical issues that could be interfering with her libido?
How does she feel about it? Does she know that you are looking into a viagra-like remedy for her, or are you assuming that's what she needs?
Yeah nothing the doctor could come up with. She can sit and walk around naked in front of me. And sometimes just flash her pussy at me but when it comes down to it she backs off and nothing happens. I don't put pressure on her. It's been about 8 months now since last felt each other in a sexual way.
I'm not assuming anything just exploring other things
The best thing to do is talk about it. I know you've said you've already tried it, but maybe think back over and try to see if you approached it as best you could.
There could be so many reasons your wife doesn't fancy sexual contact at the moment. There won't be a magic fix, unfortunately, especially not in the form of a pill (most of which are questionable at best, for women).
If you talk to her about it again, make sure it's outside of the bedroom and unrelated to sex in every way but the subject matter. Be frank and honest, and be ready to hear something you may not expect to hear. Ultimately, you love your wifey and it sounds like you're still being cheeky and having fun together! Be receptive and work together with her as a team to find a middle ground for both of you.
Unfortunately as emkapa has stated there is no magic cure, a lot of people go through dry spells and it can cause huge problems in a relationship. But as long as you talk and understand eachother then it's healthy. Enticing someone to take tablets to boost libido is really not the way to go unless a doctor has instructed, because if your partner is not feeling up to it then it's not nice to add that pressure.
I would try and just talk about things, don't push and pressurise the situation because that can make it worse. Maybe she's feeling a little insecure or maybe she's under a lot of stress or possibly going through some changes. I fully understand how hard it can be and frustrating, but the important part is you work together to get a solution. Women in general are not like men and do require a bit of a warm up, unlike us who can whip our things out and get to work it's not so simple. And maybe you need to reignite the romance. Find what's missing and talk about things, the worst part is when situations like this arises a lot of couples tend to put the blame on someone which really pushes people's pressure buttons and instead of bringing them closer it actually pushes them away. Unfortunately the only person who knows the answers is your partner. A lot of foods and vitamins help boost female libido and Spanish fly was all the rage back in the day, the same as the pink pills you can get online but most of these are just a blend of vitamins to help blood flow etc. Check in the lovehoney enhance section for a few products that might excite her (https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/better-sex-for-her/) good luck buddy and I'm sure you will resolve it, all couples have dry seasons and the strongest ones make it through! Sex is important in relationships but it's not the only thing.
How's your marital relationship for the last 6 months?LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:
Unfortunately as emkapa has stated there is no magic cure, a lot of people go through dry spells and it can cause huge problems in a relationship. But as long as you talk and understand each other then it's healthy.... I would try and just talk about things,... Unfortunately the only person who knows the answers is your partner.
Last word I heard Was they started to make up a viagra pill for women here in the USA. But that is the last I heard of it.
It'll be interesting if they go into clinical testing but I have my reservations. Man needs a firm erection to penetrate but woman needs to be wet to enjoy through senses and arousal. Haven't heard a thing in Singapore or from medical journals . I meant clinical testing on pills for women. If women have leaped into the state of menopause, it's painful if it's not wet there. So the development of lubes and jells will be helpful during sex. That's what she needs.Bigjason wrote:
Last word I heard Was they started to make up a viagra pill for women here in the USA. But that is the last I heard of it.