Is there any advice i can have apart from time might be a great healer....
When my bf went to work he left his phone behind as the battery was nearly down so it was switched off. Which numpty looked at his phone?? yes, me! and i found some messages which were quite explicit but there was no 'I love you's' and i did see texts him saying for someone to p off cos hes with someone (i guess he means me lol). I did admit to him that i looked on his phone and saw the texts. So at least i was honest.
He said it was a test cos every girl he has ever been with has always done the same thing and he wanted to see if he could trust me and vice versa. Cos i know he wasnt going to go in any other relationship for a good while and then he met me. So now apparently he can't trust me anymore. He says we are still together as he loves me but he wants space for a few weeks.
Now is it me or would have you thought it was a bit funny him leaving his phone behind? i wouldve taken it if the battery was going or not, so thats what made me look at it. The relationship had been going so great it was quite felt too good to be true. I never had a man text me all day before has all the time in the world for me, good looking and perfect who wants a girl like me. So maybe i just had to check it out cos he is the best thing thats ever happend to me.
He says he doesnt think he can trust me anymore he wants his flat key back as well. He is making such um and arh about it you swear i cheated on him or something. But words cannot describe how sorry i am and i would never look on his phone again. Giving the flat key back (however im going to do that considering im not gonna see him for a few weeks) would be like giving an engagement ring back. But i am quite mad that he had tested me like that. I'm not the type of girl who likes to be moody or cause arguements. Now normally if something crappy has happened in life, going to work normally puts my mind off things especially when i split up with my ex. But nah not this time it really isn't putting my mind off things. I've told him all this too. I'm finding this really hard i havent seen him for 2 weeks cos of it and its killing me already.
Is there any good advice out there maybe someone has been through this themselves? Thank you and sorry if that was a bit long. and theres another thing that he thinks that he has been getting in between me and my friends. Well the friend i was seeing every weekend i stopped going up there before i saw this guy because she wasnt coming to see me and it was last minute she was letting me know when i could come up. But he doesnt realise i dont go out much and i dont have many friends too. So as i havent been seeing my friend he thinks it cos of him. i admit i been going to his before 2 weeks ago for a few weeks, thats cos its a new relationship. But he still doesnt get it. how can i assure him that he's not the problem? thanks again!