Not sure if it’s the right board but oh my days. I’m just in my from 1st ever ladies night. Was a charity fundraiser. I got pulled up for the final dance when he was totally naked 🙈. I didn’t know where to look as he plonked it on my lap full of cream! Then started girating lol, hope baby lotion washes out! Then he started Bumping and grinding then he bent me over and nearly knocked me for 6 as he simulated taking me from behind. So no longer a stripper virgin and got pulled up first time. Thankfully I’d had a few gins by then so I can’t remember everything but I’m aware that at least 2 of our group filmed it 😂🙈, I wonder if they can smell newbies lol. I got off lightly compared to one very game for a laugh lady!
Glad you had fun!! It's certainly an experience. I went to one a couple of years ago for a hen do and I think I've only just about recovered from the sights haha Would definitely go again though 
Oh my, I wouldn't have known where to look or how to react! Sounds an entertaining evening
Hey Fun&Funky, really glad you enjoyed you night and experience as being a "chosen one" ;-) It's still one of the best nights a lady can have ;-) I love the sentence "I wonder if they can smell newbies" ;-)
It is a case of making eye contact with someone and seeing if they would be game to be picked out for some fun ;-) cream or baby oil being the most common ;-) For a ladies night or hen party , basically anyone who is there knows they are going to see a stripper (s) so anyone really would be considered game, the louder ones especially lol ;-)
For something like a surprise birthday for instance, you would always check with the person making a booking if the birthday girl would be OK with things, and if so how far ;-) we don't want to upset or offend anyone ;-)
I had a dear friend who used to run a fancy dress business who regularly held ladies parties (along the lines of **REMOVED BY MODERATOR**naughty knicker parties) I loved those, as they were a little more intimate than a full blown hen party where lots of them would be totally wasted lol.
hope you get to see some more strippers in the future , and now that you've had the experience of being a chosen one, you get it again
CD XX
I never used to believe the stories about hen parties and strippers. I had never seen anything at all other than drunk giggling girls.
Until the last two I went to. Both with girls younger than me, I am 32.
At the first, on a hen weekend in Salcombe, the bride to be ended up topless, on her knees, and sucked off the stripper and got her face and boobs covered. No one (apart from me) found this awkard.
The second was at a country house hen party where we had caterers, nealry all of the girls sucked, then one of the bridesmaids-to-be went off with the stripper to a room just off the dining room and from the sounds of things enjoyed every minute and came back looking very pleased with herself.
Both parties were in private surroundings, only the hen party was able to see what was going on.
abi_mo
They sound like great parties! I think any male stripper will confirm, the dressing/changing room door is always unlocked ! xx
So I understand from the guy in the first story, he told me afterwards that the majority of hen's do at least what I saw and about a third shag.
I've a male family member and he used to perform in this kind of parties. Mostly they were about stripping off, dancing and showing the ladies a good time, but slowly they started to be daring. He was engaged at the time and he decided to give the whole thing a break, because sex was off the cards. I've been to two parties and in both the stripper was totally naked but just the bride-to-be gave the guy a blowjob and made him come. I must confess I did enjoy having that beautiful bum on my face and squeeze those cheeks, but I'm sure I wouldn't ho byond that not because I'm a prude, but all those ladies with their phones that's a no-no; my hubby is cool up to a certain level, not sure he'd be ok with that.
Lu SB the mobile phone age has certainly created a new problem where stippers and shows are concerned, whilst it never bothered me being photographed (and a good few strippers depending on their theme wear masks anyway) indiscriminate photos and the type of voyeuristic snaps taken from any angle that show the party/audience can cause huge relationship problems in the wrong hands or shared with the wrong people !  xx
Was def an eye opener, I didn’t know where to look at times lol. The drag artist said to put on Facebook at your own risk as can get your accounts suspended and said not to tag herself of the strippers in any naked pictures as it risks getting their account froze. Also made a joke about if you have told your other half’s your going to bingo don’t be getting cranky if you go up on stage n ur mates put it on fb. Think the ladies there were quite restrained I don’t think anyone actually touched their dicks. I find a bride to be sucking a stripper off really bad taste... but then I guess depends on their relationship? If it’s an open one then it could be different.
yeah, Ive done parties with drag queen comperes , they are pretty hilarious, (and always have nice butts! ) some people take pics etc just to share between themselves but it's always advisable to be wary if you are on them lol  I think regarding what happens with bride to be's or chosen ones is generally a heat of the moment thing, if it stays between the walls and nobody is being pushed into anything then fine , but stags get up to no good very often so why shouldnt hens? 
This is true CD
Glad you had fun!! Despite being a married woman, male strippers have never been my thing. I would be sooo embarrassed to be approached and chosen by one!!
I prefer women strippers and the idea of just having a few drinks and watching that with hubby would be my preference, I think it's pretty cool and I'm sure he wouldn't mind too much either!
I think I'd find a woman stripper less intimidating. I am really happy with my hubby and would never be tempted to get involved in any sexual act with a male stripper, but just have a bit of harmless 'banter' with hubby with a female one.
Yet to try this, but guess it's a fantasy of mine!
Pretty shocking the statistics mentioned above at what some hen's get up to with the male strippers. I couldn't live with myself if I'd done that, let alone walk down the aisle. But, you can't judge everyone. Relationships are so varied in the modern world now and as 'Fun&Funky' mentioned, if the relationship is an open one, then it's at the 'groom and bride-to-be's' personal discretion what boundaries they have for each other at these sort of events. x
I went to an **REMOVED BY MODERATOR** party which was really cool many years ago, thank God for Lovehoney now though! Lol. I find it easier to be more discreet discussing sex toys and talk about what 'I like' on the forums here. x
Emerald, great post, and I hope to you get to do your fantasy one day
basically, hen parties/ladies nights are what they are and can get very raucous, especially when the drink begins to flow The **REMOVED BY MODERATOR** style ones were much more discreet and dare I say, civilised
It is very simliar with female strippers, if you go to a lap dancing club for example they will always have strict rules re touching (a massive NO-NO in the vast majority of them) and pictures etc, a pretty cool environment for a couple to visit if that was their thing.
On the other hand!! pub strippers can be a totally different thing, no holds barred, I once saw Lynsey Dawn McKenzie perform at the Flying Scotsman in London and she (and the rest of the girls on that day) was filthy! A bit of a shock to some customers who were just expecting a lady to take her clothes off on stage.
You learn by experience I suppose ;-)
I've never been... I wouldn't know where to look, or what to do! I tend to get very embarrassed quite easily. Sounds like you had a wicked time x
Delboy1991, I think that's where the good old G & T's come in x
My wifes been on a couple of these in the past year or so, should I be worried! No reports of anything naughty but who knows. One was in a private country house like as described above, near to Oxford. They had a couple of butlers in the buff and played a few games with them like dressing them up in bride outfits made of loo rolls. Neither got totally naked in front of 25 giggling ladies. The other was a much smaller affair with 6 of them sketching a man as he posed. They all came back gushing about how nice he was and I recall she was a little reserved about exact happenings. She was pretty horny when she got home though. Guess I will never know and in some ways a bit of turn on.
To any guy who thinks “Should I be worried?” I’d say not at all, it’s a night out and they are coming back to you. I would always make a direct comparison with Stag nights/Gents evenings. In the respect of “What happens on the do, stays on the do” It is a lot of fun on both sides. But as everyone is different and reacts to things in different ways there will never be a written in stone way of doing things. For any guy who’s partner has come home from seeing a stripper(s) and being horny, I’d say surely that’s got to be a bonus! 😉 And ladies, suggest to your man to do something for you, I can heartily recommend the dicky bow collar and cuffs from Lovehoney 😉 put a nice sexy thong with it and get him to do a turn for you 😉 There is a potential stripper in everyone 😉
CharlieDickens wrote:
I can heartily recommend the dicky bow collar and cuffs from Lovehoney 😉 put a nice sexy thong with it and get him to do a turn for you 😉 There is a potential stripper in everyone 😉
I got these as well as the tuxedo pants a little while ago. I look like an absolute twat, but they're still a lot of fun. I have really long hair at the moment so I'm not sure if that helped or not. 🙂 Mrs Chimp had a great time, though there were a few derogatory comments about my dancing/gyrating skills...🙂
I’ll take that as a yes then CharlesDickens! Actually i’d Say most gentlemen’s evenings are pretty tame, the overriding factor being treating the ladies respectfully. You often hear of the rugby club type of event where pretty much anything goes but I’ve never experienced this myself. Maybe I’ve led a sheltered life!