As the title says. Any tips from men for lasting longer when going hard and fast during sex?
During normal sex without going like a rabbit I am ok, but when things speed up and I start to see her moaning harder I just can’t help but cum quickly. Few drinks and I can last better but I want to build up natural stamina.
It was never an issue years ago, but now when I see my wife enjoying getting off it normally sends me over the edge. I 100% think it is a mental thing with me as I could cum seeing her reaction
But if anyone has successfully mastered this let me know.
Mr K here. I am probably in the same boat as you in seeing my wife get off normally takes me over the edge also.
The only way I figured out how to go longer in these situations is to try and take my mind elsewhere and not pay attention to how much she is enjoying it.
For example there is a tv remote next to the bed. I would look at the numbers on it and do math in my head using the numbers. This worked treat but it’s because I was not in the moment with Mrs C.
I no longer do this because I didn’t think it was right to not fully focus on her and be in the moment together. So now if I cum a bit too fast it doesn’t really matter as we both enjoy what we have.
The only other thing you could do is pelvic floor exercises or edging to train your body to control ejaculating but if it mental as you say then this may not help.
I have same issue as mentioned above I used to try take my mind elsewhere but now we just accept what happens happens,biggest thing that sent me over edge if I was going quick was if my partner reached down to play with herself while I was pounding her it’s always sent me over edge seeing her pleasuring her self be it solo or with me in her,I have often been close to edge pounding or her and stopped to kiss her body all over etc and this teases life out of here if I’m kissing her all over or I will go down for a few minutes to tease her to the edge and carry on etc,either outcome we both get what we set out for in the end and both enjoy ourselves
Sometimes depends how the moment has taken you I guess,for us unplanned quickie for us is usually fast and hard but in general I like to take my time until neither of us can take it anymore
I was away a while ago and I heard a woman in another room getting pounded hard. Then when I went to do it and my wife was screaming it was all too much for me
We have fantastic sex, I was just thinking of surprising her by practicing a technique without her knowing.
I have heard of the math game. I must try that one and see if I can do it.
Funny how much I enjoy seeing my wife get pleasure now. I guess this is part of a growing relationship as others have the same problem
You may want to edit your post to keep it open to everyone as per the forum rules. I’m sure there are plenty of partners who have some good tips too
If I say to my husband “not yet”, sometimes his brain sees that as a challenge. If I say “no!”, that grounds him, and that can help. Could something like that help you?
Edging works wonders in training yourself to last longer. Lots of fun when your partner is the one edging your member. Make it a game and have fun. Counting numbers and other distractions take the enjoyment out of the experience.
