So do you think I’m out of control?
I’m a 60 something guy who wears lingerie and my wife doesn’t know
Today I took a huge risk
I was in town with my wife and we separated to go to different shops
I got a little reckless and popped into a LH competitor shop and was just intending taking a look around
But he assistant asked if she could help and I said I was looking at some lingerie for myself
Next thing I found myself asking her if she could help me find my bra size telling her how I prefer how I look in a gstring if I’m taking pics of myself and how the guys I cam with like me in stockings
I hadn’t really thought it through about hiding the lingerie when we got home but I’m looking forward to dressing up next time I’m home alone
I now realise that was really reckless she could have walked past the shop and looked in and easily seen me shopping
You may he subconsciously wanting your secret to come out ? Why not just parade around in a pair for your wife ?
I’m definitely addicted.
I’m 73 and I only started wearing lingerie last year. I’m completely out of control already. I have bras, knickers, suspenders, stockings and hold-ups in a variety of styles and colours.
My wife knows and is very supportive. The set I’m wearing as I type this was bought by her for my birthday.
I have bought knickers from a retail store. My wife was with me and was buying some for herself. I added a couple of pairs for me. They were very different sizes so the checkout lady could clearly see that they were for me.
@Craig1234 the lingerie is sat in a bag right now and she’s headed to take a bath before we go back to bed I could slip it all on in the bathroom maybe lol
@rockstar part of my addiction is buying in the high street shops
The assistant said the set was new in and the colours of pink etc to die for and she’d had her eye on buying it herself
Like what @Craig1234 said, Maybe it’s your mind saying it wants your wife to know this side of you?
@AJSTAR maybe 
I think she is going to find out sooner or later Chucky and it might turn out for the best if it is on your terms.
I would be really surprised if she doesn’t have an inkling already, living in the same house it is highly likely but she doesn’t want to broach it with you.
Maybe drop hints about it to gauge the reaction over a week or two, then if she seems ok about fantasies, when it is regular play time, just wander into the bedroom wearing Charlotte’s outfit rather than Charles’s 
I may be in a lucky place but my o/h would find it irresistible. You won’t win a prize if you don’t have a go on the hoopla 
@Simon_101 I’m gradually getting closer to mentioning it but it seems like such a big step
If I get a negative response I’m screwed as she’s going to be definitely suspicious about stuff
Yes it is a big step. But in general terms to any readers on here, I think admitting any secret is the first brave step to sharing one’s fantasies.
You even titled this topic “Lingerie addiction” if you want her to trust you and enjoy your fetish, then that’s the first thing you have to admit to yourself what it is before she can join you on the journey.
My good friend C had a big secret and it ended his 20yr marriage when it was inevitably discovered. Luckily he now has a new partner and not as much to hide.
I had a funny thought last night that when you was buying this lingerie in town she was also buying something for her secret kinky fetish 
@AJSTAR oh you’re a kinky one too aren’t you lol
I wonder what the kink is
Suggestions welcome lol
Haha I reckon she has a fetish of wearing men’s boxers and shooting ping ping balls out while on cams
She’s pretty tight so I doubt she could fire ping pong balls 
Makes it all the more a secret as you’d be clueless 
I’ve just done a much needed sort out of my hosiery.
I bought some sock hangers. 10 clips on each hanger.
I’ve filled 4 with red, white and black stockings, suspender tights, suspender belts and hold-ups, 1 with special items (waspies and corsets) and 1 with special hosiery that my wife has bought for me.
That doesn’t take account of all the knickers in my drawer.
I think I’m officially addicted.
Iam addicted to lingerie love trying on in shops
@leebrookes763 im interested to hear more about your experiences in trying lingerie on in stores.
I chat and cam with loads of guys both non dressers and lingerie wearers and I rarely come across any that also openly buy their lingerie from shops and even fewer that have tried items on in the shop
I’ve only tried items a couple of times and both were after a discussion about my bra size etc and the assistant suggested it
Did you ever have a bra fitting?
I was so ridiculously nervous entering the Boux Avenue shop, I was wearing my lingerie set I bought from there.
But the assistant was really good, such a young lady too, so professional but casually chatting about my cleavage etc
Definitely be interested in hearing about your experience
just getting low bra size as long as I like it and it looks ok Funny time was a corset I liked and I couldn’t do up at back and I asked one of staff to help her face was shocked I was really nervous at first time trying on things but now dont care