Well, sex… a year and a half due to Covid,
Masturbation…, as much as possible.
2 times a day average
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Hmmm … once upon a time I wasn’t bothered at all and could go months without piv. Now … if it’s been more than a day I get frustrated, more than a couple of days and I’m losing my mind.
As for solo - hmm most days depending on if I’ve been taken care of, in which case I don’t feel the need.
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Thanks,
The longer you wait the more intense the orgasm ?
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No … intensity depends upon the amount of teasing beforehand not the gap between it …
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Back when I joined in September, I started a post about edging.
I occasionally will edge on and off all day.
Eventually it will be an intense orgasim’
Then im good for a few days
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I’d rather have at least a few sex sessions a week but with life’s stresses and realities lately once a week is about as high as the OH and I can aim. If I go without a good O for about a week and a half I get REALLY toey
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I haven’t had sex in a long time due to many reasons. I can go weeks or months without masturbating but usually around ovulation time in my cycle I get really horny and then I need to get off a couple of times a day.
I seem to be in that place right now 
I can’t even go a few days without masturbating. Sex I can wait a bit longer as it’s special with the wife.
I have sexual contact very frequently but the longest period I have been denied an orgasm is 6 weeks.
I remember being single back in the day and also being a rep for a certain summery company (ann … ). Needless to say I had so many toys sex wasn’t really an issue but even then it was most days solo.
I guess I’m not the type to go without though following complications after miscarriage and then pregnancy my poor husband was left very frustrated as I had no interest for a lonnnnnnnnng time.
These days the tables have turned and it’s him who struggles to keep up with me !
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The longest I have gone without;
masturbation- 2/3 weeks
sex- 6/7 months maybe
I usually masturbate once a week although sometimes I masturbate everyday, and sometimes not for a few weeks.
When i used to have lots of FWB arrangements I would have sex 1-3 X a week but now that I am in a relationship I am having sex once or twice a month whenever we visit each other (we live about 2 hours apart at the moment due to me being at uni)
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I’ve been months without masturbation in the past and it’s weird as you get to a phase when all urges and needs disappear
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I would be highly surprised if I’ve ever gone more than a week without a wank to be honest. Probably 2 to 3 days in between, maximum, maybe every other day? Other times is can be every day, or up to 3 or 4 times a day and then maybe a day off. If I was to work out an average I would say at least 5 times a week in a normal week. Is that a lot?
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to be honest not even 24 hours, am always too horny and wanting sex haha
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Masturbation - everyday often twice or more if I’m honest often feel like it’s too much really but if I abstain I do struggle to go 24 hours without feeling a little unhinged
Sex - my wife is currently pregnant so it’s been about 3 times in the last 3-4 months
We’d normally be more like once a week (and I’d actually ideally like us to be having sex 4-5 times a week in normal times) so I’ve found it hard but I know my wife has had so much more to deal with so I’m just trying to support her and stop myself getting too twitchy!
I have just been for 6 weeks without any sex or masturbation, the good lady eventually released the pressure a few days ago! Most cum I have ever seen! I fear it may be another long wait until it happens again, she just ain’t interested!
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At the moment for me, sex a few weeks, masturbating 2-3 days maximum. For him, the same few weeks for sex but he can go 4-6 weeks at the moment due to some medication.
one or the other ( masturbation or sex) every day.
life’s too short not to
Not sure on records but due to one thing or another it’s currently ten days on both. She’s promised me action this weekend by which point it’ll be two weeks.
I actually love the feeling in a perverse way. Hoping we’ll move to some sort of physical chastity play (opposed to the mental one we currently do) but a bit fearful of taking the plunge, or a padlock breaking!
Before I got with hubby, in my past relationships I would happily go without sex. Masturbation, I wasn’t allowed to do that at all.
Skip to now, sex with him, I can’t go without out it, I’m craving for him constantly 
I just want him inside me 
Masturbation, I can go a couple of days without, but that’s it, no longer 