Haha! Interesting 
have you ever hurt yourself while trying these big ass toys?
I feel the same way as I have done those things, lightly sat on until the point where it go any further. As it was with a 6inch dildo in Bath at the time. I did try for more balls as well, that was very pleasant and relaxed as the bath soften the skin for easy access. It had the suction attachment to fix to the bath or shower. 
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Absolutely 
Never go further than you’re comfortable with at the time, take it slow and I’d personally recommend to always test those waters by yourself rather than encouraging newer experiences that could be painful with a partner. You want to make sure you’re doing that kind of thing for yourself and to your own pace, not for someone else’s entertainment or gratification.
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Haha, I bet it’s quite fun in the bath with the suction pad holding it in place? I’ve tried in the shower before (my bathroom is too small for a bath) and just couldn’t get on with it safely, felt more uncomfortable staying on my feet with the chance of slipping or loosing balance and it put me off the good time completely, so just kept with the old faithful (the bed 
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Hell yes!! I’d always think of doing stuff like that alone at first as I can imagine it’s pretty touch and go till you get used to it and the working of your body reactions
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Absolutely, and if it turns out you aren’t actually that into it, you feel safer to say no or stop than if you were engaging in it with a partner that was enjoying it.
It also helps you get used to how your body deals with the process, and any mess that might be involved with it, without any shame or embarrassment - there are better and worse ways to use a douche 
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