Iāve replaced my temporary profile picture (avatar) now, have taken inspiration from the Milk Tray adverts.
All because the lady lovesā¦
Iāve replaced my temporary profile picture (avatar) now, have taken inspiration from the Milk Tray adverts.
All because the lady lovesā¦
So after weād finished the second bottle of wine Mrs S confessed about the guy on Twitter with whom sheās been exchanging sexy photos and messages about BDSM and stuff. I only got to see a couple of images but it doesnāt appear the half dozen nuns need to be present in real life when she gets beaten with that bunch of nettles. Well if thatās what will make her happy I am OK with it and donāt want to deny her dreams, but made her tell him I donāt want to watch, she can just tell me about it after. I havenāt had much time to think it through after a bottle of wine but as I now have free rein to hook up with someone myself it seems to me I wouldnāt want her sitting in the corner and watching and inhibiting any conversation. I donāt suppose that many women would be keen on a man bringing his wife along either.
I think that may be interesting enough for its own topic if youāre looking for advice, or a deeper chat.
@Serpentwand : Sorry to hear things are going so great. Itās a pretty niche kink but It wasnāt me, honest, although nettle play really isnāt as bad as it sounds so maybe suggests you try it together - I would recommend stroking rather than beating with the nettles. Nettles are surprisingly āunstingyā and part of the thrill is in not knowing when it is going to get you. Much better being gently caresses by them
@Ian_Chimp Yep, it might be a little off topic so Iād be happy for my post to be moved if you have the technology
That seems a fairly big escalation of things since your first post, are you okay @Serpentwand?
Iām afraid Iām just a regular Joe. But @Lovehoney_Brenna can when sheās next in.
@Serpentwand I hope you get a chance to talk to your wife about things more clearly tomorrow.
Hello and welcome
Firstly, @Serpentwand welcome to the forums.
It sounds fun that youāre both willing to experiment.
Moving on, keep the conversation up, but perhaps without the wine.
Enjoy x
Thank you so much for asking @Cassii, also @Ian_Chimp and @Melody1, itās very comforting to see someone has bothered.
After much loss of sleep it seems that the prospect of crossing that line and actually going ahead in real life has moved her thinking on from the guilty rubbing herself in secret fantasy phase to some logical thought about the cold hard reality and itās consequences, the wake up call has been received at the last moment and this wonāt become a thing.
Not for me either, I donāt have any previous history of flings and hook ups and will compare badly with the womanās other partners, am not prepared to deal with the humiliation.
We both need to get our heads together now.
Sober chats about this kind of thing are much better than sozzled ones. When youāve both put your hungover selves back together again you may want to try having an open and honest discussion about your likes/dislikes/fantasies, and see if thereās anything youād like to explore together.
Wow - Yes, extreme escalation!
I think, as the others have suggested a sober conversation is needed. Iāll be honest, Iām very open to trying new stuff with my other half. Luckily weāre both pretty open to new experiences but if I found out heād been exchanging photos with someone online without my knowledge Iād be devastated.
I hope you are okay, please donāt rush into anything youāre not completely happy with.
āTell you what love, why donāt you just relax and read your new book? Come back to all this stuff when youāve finished itā ( @Ace12345)
You overestimate my budget, i bought an older edition on the cheap
This oneās a 4th ed. I found browsing a charity shop where you pay whatever you feel appropriate - nothing at all if you want but I know itāll be really useful for Mrs S so gave them a fiver.
Aha ānow youāre fully licensed!ā.