If I’m using a sleeve then I use Fistit Extra Thick (we use that for everything now) but if I’m using my hands then I use baby oil.
We have to use some every time since the operation or it doesn’t work properly, my o/h keeps a little dispenser handy on her side.
Also need to use a bit to get inside for piv, but not too much or otherwise it means there’s hardly any feeling for me.
Were from the uk and my husband was circumcised a few years ago too. Took him a while to get used to it but we both love it now.
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Same here, operation was on the NHS and very easy to be honest with a good recovery. Now five months ago & slowly getting used to how things are. We’ve been together over 20 years, so a lot of adjusting still to do.
Wouldn’t say either of us love it though.
Lube is great. You should try it solo. Well worth it.
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IV learnt not to use gel lube as it gets sticky when it starts to dry.
Thinking of purchasing liquid silk lube for when masturbating alone, is this a good choice for solo use? Also does this stain underwear / bed sheets if any get on it or does it wash out easily? Thanks all
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Lube is brilliant for masturbation, it just makes things so much more sensitive and, for a male, it’s the closest you can get to the feel of a nice wet female when you are alone and of for anything when you are tickling your bum, it’s a necessity!! 
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Have recently purchased a bottle of silicone lube to use when wanking off. Find a little goes a long way and it lasts until washed off! Which is often the following morning. It has stained my underwear though, has anyone else had this happen? Luckily it’s a pair I wash and keep to wear when when wanking
The only silicone lube I’ve used is Pjur Backdoor Anal (never actually used it for anal - we always have some silicone toys in the mix when anal’s in play, so no-go) and I’ve never noticed it staining anything, just that it’s REALLY good for masturbation and also phenomenal between my wife’s breasts for a titty-f*ck.
My go-to is just coconut oil from the grocery section, though my second choice is a coconut oil lube from a company that that’s what they do - have water and oil based. Not currently carried by LH so I can’t name it, but their stuff is real good, too.
Anytime we use any lube either together solo our go to is liquid silk. To us it feels natural and non greasy, lasts well and easy to clean up, also leaves a nice moisturiser feel afterwards.
It’s definitely worth it, feels so much better than a dry wank and get a more intense orgasm. I normally don’t have any lube to hand, so to speak, but when I do the difference in sensation is incredible. I’ve got liquid silk at the moment and very good and don’t dry up.
In my early days, I did not use any lube , just my bare hand and worked the shaft up and down. I am circumcised so no foreskin to slide over the glans. This has caused some sensitivity issues.
I have been retraining myself lately, by using saliva as a lube, and sliding over the head and shaft, mimicking PIV intercourse, which has helped the sensitivity issues. Yesterday I bought some silicone lube and find it very nice. It lasts long and the sensations are very good, almost like vaginal sex.
My hope is I will become more regular orgasmic and even may be able to cum via oral again.