Lubes and toys for man

Sometimes we get into some bondage, like he has to kneel while I lightly kick his balls. Are there lubes that I can put on him that enhances our roleplay, maybe a stinging one? They're so many lubes in Love Honey store here, how do we choose?

Are the vibrating toys that I can control from a distance? It seems mans toys are very limited

In terms of toys there are remote control toys

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/remote-control-vibrators/ Although please only insert toys specifically designed for anal play in his butt. There are a fair few cock ring and anal options, or you could use a knicker vibrator such as https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36307 Which you might be able to position in the underwear to cup the balls

or you could look at something like this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34251 and replace the bullet with a remote control one

In terms of lube, tingle or warming lube May or may not work. Unfortunately I don’t think Lovehoney sells spanking creams anymore which might have been what you are looking for