Lubes and toys for man

Sometimes we get into some bondage, like he has to kneel while I lightly kick his balls. Are there lubes that I can put on him that enhances our roleplay, maybe a stinging one? They're so many lubes in Love Honey store here, how do we choose?

Are the vibrating toys that I can control from a distance? It seems mans toys are very limited

In terms of toys there are remote control toys Although please only insert toys specifically designed for anal play in his butt. There are a fair few cock ring and anal options, or you could use a knicker vibrator such as Which you might be able to position in the underwear to cup the balls

or you could look at something like this and replace the bullet with a remote control one

In terms of lube, tingle or warming lube May or may not work. Unfortunately I don’t think Lovehoney sells spanking creams anymore which might have been what you are looking for