I am a single father looking after my 2 year old daughter by myself.
Being on my own can get rather lonely and using my hands gets boring sometimes.
So I grabbed myself a Vibrating Cock Ring which I love.
Also I had bought a G Spot vibe for my ex while she was here which she left behind. So just recently I have been using that too alongside the cock ring.
The vibrations from that on the senstive spot on my cock is just amazing.
Anyway, back on topic!
I find I am getting rather bored with just typical masturbation so I want to push myself out of my comfort zone and try something daring (for me atleast).
I have looked at some of these Prostate Massagers and other bits and bobs but I don't even know where to begin.
I am a total anal beginner, so what I require from you lovely people is some assistance.
Start small so you don't hurt yourself! Get a small beginners butt plug (vibrating if you like that) and if you enjoy it you can move up a size. Well thats what I did..Or you could use anal beads
There is a really helpful LH video on anal toys for beginners but I can't find it at the moment..will post if i do :)
That is the Vibe I currently own. Right now I don't dare use that for anal. I fear the tip to be too wide for a beginner like myself.
I would suggest experimenting with it. I've had that exact style vibe in my ass and it was AMAZING - reached my prostate perfectly and the orgasm was wild.
Use lots of lube and go very easily and gently. The trick is to completely relax - any tensing and nothing will get in there. Masturbate for a while first (without cumming) and edge yourself. Get really into it. The first few times you may not even want (or be able) to put the vibe inside your ass. Still use it turned on to stimulate your ass area though.
It may take time until you are comfortable to have it inside you, but when you do..... WOW
I would suggest experimenting with it. I've had that exact style vibe in my ass and it was AMAZING - reached my prostate perfectly and the orgasm was wild.
Use lots of lube and go very easily and gently. The trick is to completely relax - any tensing and nothing will get in there. Masturbate for a while first (without cumming) and edge yourself. Get really into it. The first few times you may not even want (or be able) to put the vibe inside your ass. Still use it turned on to stimulate your ass area though.
It may take time until you are comfortable to have it inside you, but when you do..... WOW
You know I never actually thought to use it on the outside of my ass.
I may just give that a try later on. Thanks for the suggestion :)
I would suggest experimenting with it. I've had that exact style vibe in my ass and it was AMAZING - reached my prostate perfectly and the orgasm was wild.
Use lots of lube and go very easily and gently. The trick is to completely relax - any tensing and nothing will get in there. Masturbate for a while first (without cumming) and edge yourself. Get really into it. The first few times you may not even want (or be able) to put the vibe inside your ass. Still use it turned on to stimulate your ass area though.
It may take time until you are comfortable to have it inside you, but when you do..... WOW
You know I never actually thought to use it on the outside of my ass.
I may just give that a try later on. Thanks for the suggestion :)
As you get into it and relax, you will eventually be able to slip it into your ass comfortably.
Plus, the bonus with that shape is that it will act as a plug once inside and stay in by itself - you can go back to focusing on your dick and balls with both hands!
I completely agee with MissChar, Definitely get a douche, they're not much and make all the difference, the anal lube I use is; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22575 and it works great!
It's nice and thin so dosen't hurt much without lube and the length means you have something to hold firmly while you look for your prostate, just go easy on it when you do.
A big must is LUBE! get a basic thick one, preferably designed for anal. Another tip is keep something on hand to clean up afterwards, like wet wipes.
Next, the vibrations are just right with this toy and so much fun.
Finally, it looks obvious but don't sit down with it in, otherwise expect a trip to the doctors.
Maybe to start off with try a finger? That's how it happened with me anyway... I had a little play session masturbating while massaging my prostate and felt how amazing it was. After that it became a craving for more and better sensations!
The best advice for beginners is never stiff on the lube. Lube lube lube! Very important and also ease into it and make sure you have a lot of time you need to relax and let it happen.