Male Harness, for a Dom or sub?

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So I have been wondering about getting myself a male harness for a while now. I did look at it before but I had a few personal things that came up so didn’t get the one I was thinking off. I know that some of the male harnes that are on the website are more designed for the male be the sub. However I was wondering if all of the harness were intend for a male sub, or could some be used if the male was the dom? Just wanted to get peoples opinion on wether they think a male harness is for a Dom or sub.

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It's what you make it! ;) I can't see why a dom wouldn't wear this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34095 or this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34159 after removing the chain that's on the cuffs.

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I certainly think the 1st one is a better looking harness for a Dom. Still unsure wether I would get it or not. I’m not the best built guy and I am a bit hairy so not sure how it would look. Just not sure about the metal cock ring with it either.

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Never tried one, but your post is very interesting because I can see how it could be both a Dom or Sub thing. Dom: you will practice and earn your stripes before I let you have sex with me, or Sub: you are not worthy of deriving any personal gratification from having sex with me. Very very interesting, thanks for this, hope you get on well with whichever you choose.

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Thanks for your reply. I hope it goes well. I’m certainly going for more of the Dom look. Haven’t had bondage fun for a while. OH has had a lot of personal things goings on so she hasn’t felt like that kind of fun. Just waiting for when she wants to have that fun again. I shall certainly keep this thread updated when I get the harness and what my thoughts are. Also I will most likely review it as well :)

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Smultron wrote:

It's what you make it! ;) I can't see why a dom wouldn't wear this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34095 or this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34159 after removing the chain that's on the cuffs.

I have one from the Zado range from LH which is no longer stocked but is similar to the Dominix link above. Whether it is Dom or sub completely depends on the scene we have planned, the accessories we use and what my OH is wearing.

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Great. Hope it goes well, Foxcub!