Too many children in our house to be too loud. I would love to hear more from my OH. I am sure it would really turn me on!
love this... like not the screaming the place down kinda thing...thats too much. But the moaning and the body shaking, and the 'yes baby' moaned softly...I love that! And i like being tod what to do.. Im all for that. For me the greatest part is when you hear him building in his voice.
Wildcherry wrote:
Being a swinger, people are all different in expressing themselves and I don't usually kiss and tell but I've had from very loud aggressive roars ( yes im not kidding when i say a roar, frightened the shit out of me) to wondering if they came at all..
My other half is quiet until he cum's or if he's being pleasured he'll make noises. Can't say I'm overly partial to roars but I need to hear and actually enjoy hearing little moans or grunts.
"yes im not kidding when I say a rorar, frightened the shit out of me"
that comment made me laugh out loud. please tell us more!
Love it
MissBrownEyes92 wrote:
love this... like not the screaming the place down kinda thing...thats too much. But the moaning and the body shaking, and the 'yes baby' moaned softly...I love that! And i like being tod what to do.. Im all for that. For me the greatest part is when you hear him building in his voice.
yes yes yes!
I absolutely love it when my OH is noisy during sex and foreplay, it really turns me on! I love noisy sex, I often find I'm able to orgasm much quicker when we're both being noisy because I'm so horny, and I think he likes it too 
I'm a massive male noise maker! Rapid grunts and pants with an 'uh uh uhhh AHH ARGGHHHH' at the end lol. I honestly don't understand how anyone can have totally silent sex - must take such an effort.
Love it!
MissBrownEyes92 wrote:
love this... like not the screaming the place down kinda thing...thats too much. But the moaning and the body shaking, and the 'yes baby' moaned softly...I love that! And i like being tod what to do.. Im all for that. For me the greatest part is when you hear him building in his voice.
+1 Definitely a turn on for me
Hmm, this is inspiring me to ask him to say my name while we're at it. Definite turn on for me.
I'm not even that comfortable hearing my own!
I keep hearing the guy next door. Sounds like an animal in pain lol
A man, graoning, gruning, and in the throws of passion, that you are creating and provoking? OMG its a huge turn on for me.
Be it me watching him play with him self, be it him moaning in my ear etc...its a huge catalyst to my own arousal, :)
SensualFire wrote:
A man, graoning, gruning, and in the throws of passion, that you are creating and provoking? OMG its a huge turn on for me.
Be it me watching him play with him self, be it him moaning in my ear etc...its a huge catalyst to my own arousal, :)
Good to know. Apparently I'm really loud and a couple of women have said it's unusual for a guy.
well surely it means your ok with expressing your self. If women are uncomfortable, its becasue they may find it hard to express them selves in such a way. After all sex has x ammount of crap perceptions and beliefs attached to it :)
SensualFire wrote:
well surely it means your ok with expressing your self. If women are uncomfortable, its becasue they may find it hard to express them selves in such a way. After all sex has x ammount of crap perceptions and beliefs attached to it :)
Very true. It's just so good to let go and not worry about how you might sound or howyour face might look. Sex should be uninhibited. :)
Exactly :) the more comfortable with your self, the better it is xx
Many different factors will alter my feelings on this.
If it's a sensual, soft session, the odd gentle almost whisper moan is a turn on for me. Too much would make me paranoid that he'd be faking it, and I'm not doing my job properly. Grunting wouldn't do it for me at all.
If it's a moment where he's focusing on me, I love to hear soft vocalisations of what he's feeling and experiencing. Again, too much in this situation wouldn't do it for me at all. Just soft whispers of delight are perfect.
Now, when I'm focusing on him, or if it's a passion filled, steamy session, I really get off on hearing him vocalising the feelings he's getting. Moaning and heavy breathing really get me there without even needing any attention on me!
It's all about quantity and volume, I guess.
An appreciative moan is always welcome. I'm not a fan of OTT noise though, just find it off-putting.
With a teeanage son in an adjacent room we have to be quiet . Even the spanking has to be done on fur lined paddles :)