My OH wont put out anymore. It been years. I jackoff everyday. Shes even been right next to me when i jacked and cum. I think i like jacking off so much now that i prefer it to getting her pussy anymore. Thoughts??
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If you talk openly with each other and there’s no animosity between you both then is there an issue.
Your profile says you are in an open relationship! If that’s the case is it so open you can have relations with whoever you please? Or do you want to be monogamous with your wife and again if so have you talked it through with her.
If you are not happy talk and find out where you both are. If happy support each other and enjoy your life together as is but keep communicating as things change.
Yes i fuck other females often. Buy she was always horny as fuck…multiple orgasms…buy as our kids grew she just lost interest in fucking
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Time for a heart to heart and see where you both are at.
There’s a lot to unpack here
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Am i wrong to prefer jacking off and getting pussy elsewhere than to want her?
I don’t think there’s enough info there to give any sensible advice other than talk to your OH about it
Why are you still together ? Clearly you don’t want sex with her and her you , have you asked her why ? Maybe she she isn’t happy with you having sex with other women
If you’re both happy with the situation and it’s consensual then sure. Go for it. If not then yes it’s wrong.
As already said it’s a post requiring a lot of context…
I’m not sure if you’re asking for validation of you sleeping with other women, or because you’re confused about her (perceived?) rejection of you?
There is likely a lot contributing to the situation you find yourself in. And a real, open conversation with your OH would hopefully provide the clarity you’re looking for.
I personally don’t think as mentioned by @Renjen staying together is necessarily questionable. There are many relationships working as co-parents, financial partnerships etc, rather than traditional model.
Staying together can work fine provided it’s not only working because one, or both parties is deceiving the other. And it’s not one person’s happiness and joy at the expense of the other.
Nothing wrong with jacking off but try to consider what she might be feeling. Like @lowndsey said, more info is needed before some of us can really give a meaningful advice.
As others have said, why are both together? You’ve reduced her to a mere organ, a part of her anatomy, a service that she can provide you. She deserves someone who will love her wholly for who she is, not just the pleasure she can provide him. I really feel for her, she deserves so much better than this and I hope one day she realises it.
As for you, leave her alone and masturbate somewhere else. If your pleasure matters more to you than her feelings, stop expecting her to be a part of it.
If it works for you both then I’d not see any issues in it as such unless either are wanting to be more intimate again
You too?
I got sick of trying to please my wife at the expense of losing my erection before I could orgasm, so I had to masterbate secretly, then I began to use a penis pump over night and jack off to a fatter cock early in the morning while she was asleep, after a while I realised that she was awake facing away from me, ignoring what I was doing. So I made a ooint of doing it when she was sleeping while facing me edited by mod. I eventually explained to her that I needed relief regularly., to keep myself healthy, Now I masterbate in front of her, for her on weekends, other days I am locked up, ensuring Saturdays are special, she unlocks me and starts me off, then I take over while she watches, I cum so hard like that. I live the weekends. Only a few hours to wait now! Oh how I am ready.
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